judgementalism sucks...

Most people have a general comfort zone, of age or type of matching partner. While there are surprises, straying too far from that zone often is not the greatest time, and certainly here, the ladies tend to get the backlash.

I couldn't even begin to count the ways. I've tried (and tried) younger ladies, but as I age, I find myself continuing to enjoy most those who age along side me. They are less prone to false portrayal of the act, more mature in their understanding of the ebb and flow of a session, and just more sensual altogether. They seem to more likely understand the difference between temporary glamour and more lasting beauty. Experience makes us all smarter, I suppose, and mature women seem to carry themselves with a more stolid wisdom and confidence--something I find very erotic. A thousand more things I could say, but suffice with 'give me a lady over 50 every time.' Originally Posted by FLWriter

Do you see a marked difference between a 40 year old and 55 year old provider?

Do you see a marked difference between a 40 year old and 55 year old provider? Originally Posted by Pangolier

I can but I don't know that my dataset with specific ages is large enough to answer you empirically. What I do know is that over the years, based on experience, I've found 40 and above to be my preferred attention zone, with 50 being a sweet spot.

What I can say with some certainty, and again this is my preference, is that women over 40 who carry themselves with some degree of optimism are just huge turn-ons. Nothing like a confident, optimistic lady with experience to back it all up.

Cover all this discussion with my complete and total understanding of any gentleman's preference for younger ladies. I get it, trust me. I've met some absolute princesses. But, to FireKitten's point, we all have our comfort zones.

I can but I don't know that my dataset with specific ages is large enough to answer you empirically. What I do know is that over the years, based on experience, I've found 40 and above to be my preferred attention zone, with 50 being a sweet spot.

What I can say with some certainty, and again this is my preference, is that women over 40 who carry themselves with some degree of optimism are just huge turn-ons. Nothing like a confident, optimistic lady with experience to back it all up.

Cover all this discussion with my complete and total understanding of any gentleman's preference for younger ladies. I get it, trust me. I've met some absolute princesses. But, to FireKitten's point, we all have our comfort zones. Originally Posted by FLWriter

To this day Miss K is still the prettiest girl I've taken to bed with me, and if she's not 38 yet she will be by December. So, if she looks the same 2 years from now she will upstage everyone else, at least as far as looks are concerned. Granted I expect almost no 40 year old to resemble her. I think she managed to locate the Fountain of Youth and has been able to keep it a secret. I don't know, maybe it's all genetics. I do know that spending excessive amounts of time exposed to direct sunlight is terrible for your skin and promotes premature aging.

FireKitten I have to agree 100%

Genetics does have a lot to do with aging
But if you take care of yourself and stay out of the sun .
Use good cleansing Products can keep your skin looking youthful .

Genetics does have a lot to do with aging
But if you take care of yourself and stay out of the sun .
Use good cleansing Products can keep your skin looking youthful .

Dallas is always sweet, and has the best attitude. Anyone would be fortunate tip-off spend time with her.

I think the “judgey” stuff happens when we try to generalize. We are all guilty of that. I don’t personally think that we are completely in control of what our brain finds attractive. Certainly, it’s nice to appreciate differences though.

Well my butt has defied age lol
It may be 58,but it looks 30!! lol

Thanks everyone for discussions!!!

well im judgemental...and i judgeDallas as a sexy. sensual....kool as hell ...great fuck of a time!!

Genetics does have a lot to do with aging
But if you take care of yourself and stay out of the sun .
Use good cleansing Products can keep your skin looking youthful . Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF

Yes I agree

Well your profile pic doesnt put you at that age. Thats a nice arse for 50

thx all yall!!

As a lady friend once told me, all women are a little Crazy & Most Men are A Holes most
Of the time!! I’ve found that to be a true statement.

DallasRain, you have always been a total badass!