I know how I reacted to my ex-wife when I found out I was cuckolded by my (then) best friend. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005
Hopefully he spit it out!
:vomi t3: Originally Posted by WTF
:laughin g1:LOL
A strand of hair, given on the Vernal Equinox. An ancient Eastern European tradition. It was once believed by the farmers in the villages who still practiced folk magic that giving someone a strand of your hair gave them power over your soul. So when you did this on the Vernal Equinox, it was an expression of complete trust and love.I had never heard of that, Lauren, but it does sound like a gift from the heart.
I've done this with very few people, and with the others I did not regret it. I regret this one person though. It just randomly popped into my mind and we haven't spoken in a long while. I'd entirely forgotten I'd given it to him. For some reason I hate the thought that he might still keep it. I hope he threw it out. Originally Posted by Lauren Summerhill
I had never heard of that, Lauren, but it does sound like a gift from the heart.One exposes themselves. Lowers their personal shield. Allows someone into the inner sanctum.
However, I don't see why a little thing like that should bother you in the least.
Without wishing to be unkind, I would say that is simply a superstition that you have to let go. Originally Posted by Fast Gunn
Anything given that has the possibilities of regret because some expectation was not met is not a gift...it is a business decision. Albeit a bad one.Nope me buckoo... missed it again by that much. Want to try behind door number 3 Monty?
Originally Posted by WTF
Nope. Once given, it's theirs to do with as they please.That is very true which is why I regret the gift. I did not realize that when that individual had asked me for it that all she was doing was just playing me and did not care for what she got. That is why I wrote what I did.
Now what they do with it can give you some insight into what the relationship is or isn't. Originally Posted by Iceman
Nope me buckoo... missed it again by that much. Want to try behind door number 3 Monty?Damn LD, thats why I said it was a bad biz decision. Just cause you didn't realize it was biz, don't make it not biz!...well maybe it was a good biz on her part!
That is very true which is why I regret the gift. I did not realize that when that individual had asked me for it that all she was doing was just playing me and did not care for what she got. That is why I wrote what I did. Originally Posted by LonesomeDove
Anything given that has the possibilities of regret because some expectation was not met is not a gift...it is a business decision. Albeit a bad one.So, a gun wouldn't be a gift? Because if I gave a gun to someone with the expectation that they wouldn't use it on me and they shot me with it, I think I would regret giving it to them.
Originally Posted by WTF
Damn LD, thats why I said it was a bad biz decision. Just cause you didn't realize it was biz, don't make it not biz!...well maybe it was a good biz on her part! Originally Posted by WTFWant to try for a 1 in 1 since yer still sucking air there WTF?
Want to try for a 1 in 1 since yer still sucking air there WTF?Well if she did not care for you then it was just biz to her. Monkey biz or whatever.
What I described was outside of P4P since Lauren did not specify P4P or civie. The biz had nothng to do with what was given by me nor did it factor into any of the reasons for the giving in the first place. In fact, what was given would have never been given if it was P4P since it contained TMI of a personal nature. Now try to keep up there sonny... Originally Posted by LonesomeDove
Well if she did not care for you then it was just biz to her. Monkey biz or whatever.I am just at you WTF...
I find it strange if someone gave me something and then got mad if I threw it away. It's a way for me to ck their maturity level! If they do not get mad, they are my kinda people. Originally Posted by WTF