Why would a provider not let you clean up?

Some people are really meticulous or ocd about their personal space, then again it could be related to a roommate, or even the pimp in the shower. Either way, I know it's gross but I say if she's being difficult about it stick with your wipes and any excess body odor she may have to deal with is her problem

Some people are really meticulous or ocd about their personal space, then again it could be related to a roommate, or even the pimp in the shower. Either way, I know it's gross but I say if she's being difficult about it stick with your wipes and any excess body odor she may have to deal with is her problem Originally Posted by JadeRose

The problem is she then alerts him in info share as having body odor.

Isn't that a bitch though? I'm sure the question would be raised hopefully about him showering beforehand and I'm sure she likely wouldn't be honest about her end, which sucks. All these damn double standards.

Isn't that a bitch though? I'm sure the question would be raised hopefully about him showering beforehand and I'm sure she likely wouldn't be honest about her end, which sucks. All these damn double standards. Originally Posted by JadeRose

Why does a Provider's decision to deny use of her place to freshen up = dishonesty on other subjects?

Where is the correlation?

Maybe she has a SO that doesn't know what she does and is worried about missing his pubes and getting busted?

I don't agree that it's a practice I would appreciate or that I would see her knowing that but I would not take a leap to whether or not she is honest.

I was more or less making a general statement towards a lady who would deny someone a shower knowing full well that he probably NEEDS one, then make the conscious effort to post him in infoshare as a smelly client. Sounds a bit malicious to me, no? True, it could very well be either option. I just feel like its a bit of a catch 22 to deny someone a shower then complain about them being smelly. Just saying.

The guy opens up a thread about a gripe he has with a lady that does not want to let him freshen up at her place and you take it to a different level....

"then make the conscious effort to post him in infoshare as a smelly client. Sounds a bit malicious to me, no?" and "I'm sure she likely wouldn't be honest about her end,"

Those ARE your words right?

I was more or less making a general statement towards a lady who would deny someone a shower knowing full well that he probably NEEDS one, then make the conscious effort to post him in infoshare as a smelly client. Sounds a bit malicious to me, no? True, it could very well be either option. I just feel like its a bit of a catch 22 to deny someone a shower then complain about them being smelly. Just saying. Originally Posted by JadeRose

You're right Whispers, I took it to another level. Damn dramatic hoogars blowing things out of proportion. You win, I know you'd never DREAM of getting off topic and/or malicious intent on a totally neutral discussion. Good job on correcting those who do, what would CoEd do without you? :-)

Your logic perplexes me. If you could stop following my posts around coed and rebutting every one with some kind of accusation of drama, ill intent, or betrayal and/or dishonesty towards fellow hookers- that'd be great.

Jade is making solid points all around with this post.

You're right Whispers, I took it to another level. Damn dramatic hoogars blowing things out of proportion. You win, I know you'd never DREAM of getting off topic and/or malicious intent on a totally neutral discussion. Good job on correcting those who do, what would CoEd do without you? :-)

Your logic perplexes me. If you could stop following my posts around coed and rebutting every one with some kind of accusation of drama, ill intent, or betrayal and/or dishonesty towards fellow hookers- that'd be great. Originally Posted by JadeRose

I went back and read all her reviews (there are 10 on TER) and every one of them are businessmen in motels. Sounds like she don't host much.

It does sound suspicious. You've been around long enough to know it's not worth the trouble or hassle so why are you even spending so much time on this girl? Is it because she's super hot? If so then use your brain and just walk away. It's probably the blonde mom from SquidBillies in real life when you get to the door and her "manager/bf" waiting in the bathroom. Why are you acting so clueless?

I went back and read all her reviews (there are 10 on TER) and every one of them are businessmen in motels. Sounds like she don't host much. Originally Posted by derek303

Why does a Provider's decision to deny use of her place to freshen up = dishonesty on other subjects?

Where is the correlation?

Maybe she has a SO that doesn't know what she does and is worried about missing his pubes and getting busted?

I don't agree that it's a practice I would appreciate or that I would see her knowing that but I would not take a leap to whether or not she is honest. Originally Posted by Whispers

The correlation is the assumption that either the pimp or another person is in the incall hiding in the bathroom. If someone else is in the location, and you aren't told ahead of time, that's dishonest, or at least very stupid.

If she is providing in a place where the SO or someone else is likely to be a problem if you use the shower, that's also a bad thing, although it might count as stupid and risky instead of outright dishonest.

I think the other person implication is the most likely explanation. However, it may be that she doesn't want the hotel staff to know she's providing. They know already, trust me. If it's not a hotel, she may just not want to deal with clean towels, etc.

She may also just not like guys messing up the bathroom, either. Remember "No, you can't take a dump at my incall" girl? What's she going to do if the guy needs to pee?

The correlation is the assumption that either the pimp or another person is in the incall hiding in the bathroom. If someone else is in the location, and you aren't told ahead of time, that's dishonest, or at least very stupid.

If she is providing in a place where the SO or someone else is likely to be a problem if you use the shower, that's also a bad thing, although it might count as stupid and risky instead of outright dishonest.

I think the other person implication is the most likely explanation. However, it may be that she doesn't want the hotel staff to know she's providing. They know already, trust me. If it's not a hotel, she may just not want to deal with clean towels, etc.

She may also just not like guys messing up the bathroom, either. Remember "No, you can't take a dump at my incall" girl? What's she going to do if the guy needs to pee? Originally Posted by GneissGuy

upcharge for a golden shower?

Some people are really meticulous or ocd about their personal space, Originally Posted by JadeRose

"I'll suck your unwashed dick, but don't use my bathroom." TFF however, it's entirely possible she DOES feel that way. People are weird.

Reminds me of a session where we had been doing lots of DFK. I took a break and accidentally drank from her soda instead of my own. I apologized and we had a laugh about sharing saliva.

I hate flying bc no matter how short of a flight .. you still feel super dirty once you land. I always have to take a shower ASAP after traveling.
I always offer / have it available if asked.
Maybe she had a previous bad experience that made her change her policies?
Believe me, ive had some unpleasant experiences that made me rethink it a time or two. From not cleaning up after themselves from using EVERY fresh towel ( i mean cmon who does that? LOL)
If a shower is a must. .. id do some more research and find something more compatible to what you need. Or reschedule until you can get freshened up.

To answer "why am I acting so clueless" is the area is a market where pickins are thin. Eccie is all but non existent only a handful of girls....and she looks like the hottest. If I was headed to a strong market I would of already bailed.