Part of GFE is buying gifts. It's only instinctive.
I remember getting a BBBJ from a stripper in the VIP of blue flame, it was my first BBBJ in 5 years and I couldn't help but feel like I owed her the world.
I didn't go home thinking "what a slut she sucked me off" but rather wanting to tell her "thank you". I was filled with gratitude.
Also, after a stressful two months I got with Madison (5'10" caucasion, big MM's, split time between arlington/houston - http://imagesd.backpage.com/centrali...pg--medium.jpg ) and she gave me a spirited BBBJTCIM to which I layed back, relaxed and said "thank you Madison"
Some of you providers don't know what we've gone through during the day or over the course of the week so i'd just like to say the feelings mutual.
(plus I'd rather be on a provider's good side than bad)