BBFS - A plea for change

I am NOT going to name names. I did not intend this to start rumors about anyone. Those people asking for/doing/receiving bbfs know who they are. We all know that no matter how guilty someone is of doing bbfs, he/she will deny it in any open forum. I will tell everyone that to my knowledge, they are otherwise very reputable and well reviewed ladies. FWIW, I do not know of either of them having anything that doesn't wash off.

I started the thread to increase awareness. If a lady tells you she'll do it because you are "special", she's probably doing it with others too. It is always your choice to do it or not, but please be careful.

I don't want to stifle the hobby. I just want everyone in our community to be safe while having fun.

I'm not active on that board, but you are welcome to steal my thoughts and post there. Communication is a good thing. Knowledge is power.

i think this would definitely be a great thread to start on the nola side, just to get more opinions on the matter....this is a VERY WISE TOPIC TO BRING UP Originally Posted by elegantbelinda

knowledge is the only intention... not to blab, just to make wise to the weary

I am thinking the same thing Lowgear is SAYING , why so quiet? might be a touchy subject and now some girls might not want to do doubles and triples with such and such if this is going on. Somebody knows something and providers are going to be in the powder room about this. Also, seen where Belinda brought up the part about doing doubles and one girl is not using a bathing suit and makes the other feel obligated to follow and in the same direction. Thats pressure when you have well reviewed provider doing that and it must make some feel bad .

I am going to pipe up with

Tess you were hot before, but now...I'm madly in lust with you.

Let's just say if the tennessee bitch knows who & exactly what tess is talking about....it's pretty much an open secret.

It was heartbreaking for me. These were people I respected (past tense). They know who they are. They know exactly who they are. And I notice ....crickets chirping from their end, don't you? <hint people>

I totally hear what you are saying Tess @ not seeing people these providers have seen...but that is a big swath of clients isn't it? When "that reference" now comes up, I make a point of mentioning "no bbfs from me. ever." I am a widow with two 9yo - some paltry chump change isn't worth a broken nail, much less as Belinda so aptly put it - not spoiling my grandkids (may they be light years away)

Ladies - so&so does it...."Well GTFO and go see so&so!" THAT name may be huge and seem to carry alot of credibility....but it is literally your life.

Guys, if you have issues with protective gear...it is your issue. Not mine. I don't bring my troubles to a meeting do I? There are many many many many many oh so damn many ways to gratification without going where the entire population of Rhode Island has taken a dump. No soap, no douche, no sandblaster washes that skank away. EVER.

I recently got a date request from one of the (most well known) bb clients and politely "I am sooooo not your type" declined. Oddly enough, he didn't question the 'type' comment.

I got you & Belinda's back 110% on this. It's a shitstorm @ to happen - but I'm in that boat with you.

You just fuckin rock! Or fuck rocks? Or ..Oh..fuck the rock hard ones!

well you know how people on this board hate the truth,well the condom busted this time!

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I have read prior postings about similiar subjects that a man brought up and he was seriously bashed. His avatar showed the picture of a condom with a red X over the picture.
Now we have a woman bringing up the subject about another woman doing this very thing.
This is getting juicy since we have been basically lead to look in a specific direction due to the hints.

lol @ bj.

From my POV, there is a difference between a client demanding bb and a provider offering it. Both are dumashell (IMHO).

What we have here is said client and said provider together. It was much less of an issue IF it had been kept between the two of them. The involvement of 3rd parties was not a brainiac thing to do though was it? Nothing like a 'first hand' witness.

Drama? NO. Several providers have known for a while. I can only speak for myself, but the bb issue has become part of my screening practice. If I know the client is going to pull the "I can't reach it with" - he doesn't even need to contact me. That statement is a lie btw - you have trained yourself to that BY CHOICE. Yes, you can get there w/out bbfs. I can get you there. BUt I will noyt spend one minute (much less an hour or more) dealing with "please, I need, please, just let me, well XXX let's me"

As for providers going bbfs. I have a friend shooting porn right now - and porn is going covered. So again - bullshit.

BBFS is a health hazard in our particular type of community.
Tess didn't post this to 'out' anyone. She is trying to raise the awareness level within our community annd by doing so...hopefully putting the brakes on it.

well as you can read in this post ,it is both sexes playing with fire,but the main ones doing it need to practice what they preach amen

Lowgear, you want to go to the New Orleans side and mention this since you brought it up earlier? Me and Belinda will follow you over there if you like. Foreign policy is to bring back-up because we might get kicked back to the Mississippi river.
You must know that area better ...some canjun cooty with seran wrap or NOT? hmmmmm
Tune in next week for the final episode of " As the World turns " with Love Glove falls off. Discovery Channel has Pecker Puss Plague at 9pm central time.
Babe, can you let me know the name of the porn friend you have and we can buy her video. Thanks

im so glad that someone that doesnt even know me has balls enough to vouche that i will do something without me speaking my voice...
lowgear knows what i think...

What does BB client mean?

bareback, no wrappy for happy

It's about awareness Like Jxnbilady said.Start naming names and its gonna be she said he said and so on.Then its gonna turn into drama after drama just like BP.Everyone knows the risk that we all take on a daily bases.

As for it being quite on the board,its been that way for awhile here in mississippi.