What happened to Seeking?

Secret Benefits definitely seems to have a healthy number of legitimate, attractive women but as laserface pointed out... a lot of the initial messages are fake to try and get you to buy credits to view them.

I've never bought credits and my inbox is flooded with messages from seemingly real accounts, even though I don't have any pics up nor any part of my profile filled in beyond just a username which is a breakfast food item LOL

truth be told - seeking and secret benefits are the only way I'd pay to play as the backpage type girls in pgh are always some horrific combination of ugly, expensive, and risky. Don't know how they have any customers tbh.

Secret Benefits is terrible in my area. No one responds. Likely the profiles are fake or potential SBs aren't online when they appear to be.

I payed for the credits on SB, met a few women and actually been hooking up the last 7 months with a steady married one from Ohio I met on there and I have to say she is a hot one, not sure if I'll stop seeing her or not but if you come across a 45 from the "Wheeling" area go for it!

I’ve been off and on there for 10 years. It’s really bad right now. 75 percent of the profiles are fake, the three decent looking chicks want 1200 ppm. Originally Posted by TheSerb99

Wait - did you say $1200 pay-per-meet? Please tell me nobody is stupid enough to pay that. Even visiting porn stars don't charge that.

Wait - did you say $1200 pay-per-meet? Please tell me nobody is stupid enough to pay that. Even visiting porn stars don't charge that. Originally Posted by lustylad

No pussy is worth $500, let alone $1200.

"A fool and his money will soon be parted"

I save my credits for 18-19

I save my credits for 18-19 Originally Posted by Mpopsyes

That was always my M.O. on Seeking. Oldest chick I ever met thru SA was 22 lol. I'm still in touch with one from the glory days, and she's currently only 24.

That was always my M.O. on Seeking. Oldest chick I ever met thru SA was 22 lol. I'm still in touch with one from the glory days, and she's currently only 24. Originally Posted by tommy156

Similar for me. Mine is now 28 been seeing her for 8 years. Most of them have gone on to some pretty damn good careers and/or got married.

I use to use seeking for travel fun. Fantastic for cities like Miami or Vegas.
Has anyone else done that lately? Thinking of buying a couple months membership for that reason only.

I travel a good bit for work, and use SA exclusively. I have a few regulars I see in a few Midwest cities, but when in a new city, I'll reach out to a few about 5-7 days before I arrive. It's a very rare occasion where I don't hook up on a visit these days.

I travel a good bit for work, and use SA exclusively. I have a few regulars I see in a few Midwest cities, but when in a new city, I'll reach out to a few about 5-7 days before I arrive. It's a very rare occasion where I don't hook up on a visit these days. Originally Posted by Youlookinforme

Good to hear.

I travel a good bit for work, and use SA exclusively. I have a few regulars I see in a few Midwest cities, but when in a new city, I'll reach out to a few about 5-7 days before I arrive. It's a very rare occasion where I don't hook up on a visit these days. Originally Posted by Youlookinforme

Nice! What’s ppm ballpark for these?

It does vary city to city, and I tend to avoid using SA in very large cities (Vegas/NYC/LA/etc), but I never drop more than $500, plus dinner/drinks with some of them. With my regulars, that includes overnights at my hotel. My wife always wonders why I am exhausted after these trips. Haha.

How about the OG site adultfriendfinder ? Is that just pros and hos now too?

How about the OG site adultfriendfinder ? Is that just pros and hos now too? Originally Posted by eyecu2

The last woman I met off AdultFF was 40yrs old, 6'2" and 300lbs. Needless to say I left before I met death by snu snu