If a client sends me a text or email it may or may not still be in the same exact place they sent it - to my phone number or email address. I’m the only one who accesses it and this is how I do things. I’m not going to lie and pretend I delete everything immediately when I don’t. When a girl contacts me five months after I’ve seen a gent one time it is nice to be able to review our correspondance before I respond to her. Likewise, if someone has contacted me multiple times and doesn’t seem to understand the meaning of hooker etiquette - it is very helpful for me to have prior correspondance and know this isn’t someone I want to spend time with. If I had a good rapport with a gent I’d be happy to delete all correspondance as I get it but otherwise - I’m not the girl for you if you can’t deal with me having the words you sent me in my text or email history after you’ve sent them.
I provide multiple references every single day and without this information, many of these references would not be possible. I’m extremely reference friendly and the safety of my peers (fellow escorts) trumps some client being paranoid that me (someone with 90+ positive reviews) is going to do something shitty with his info.
I’ve know for a while that you and I do things differently and I am content with that.
Originally Posted by bustybabygirl
I get where you are coming from on certain points you have made. Yes we are very different in how we operate and like you said, you are content with that and so am I.
I am just asking valid questions, not knocking how you present yourself to the clientele you are looking for. I also save numbers of the dick beaters that has wasted my time or not yet provided reference and make note of the LPS hobbyist.
As a possible client, I would be less inclined to give my information to someone that has 90+ positive reviews.
I see such a small client base and always have, I have no problem on recalling any client that I have seen if it was last month or 3 years ago when I learned about lucrative speed dating.
In my screening process, sometimes I do not feel that it is necessary to check reference with other providers. Screening at the level I do, and the few lucky guys a week I see, odds of coming across a bad apple are few and far between and my experience with someone might be totally different than the last ladies.
It amazes me how much this world varies and the supply and demand that is on all levels equally. This is one of the top addictions in the world!! Beating out all others that would first come to mind. Go to a sex addicts meeting and you will certainly come out with a whole new outlook.
Just like any other punishable offenses that has a meeting to educate, deter, and support, and typically earn chips, you will find a lot of what we call "sheet signers" that are court ordered to be there. You can see the signs of being rode hard and put up wet without them even opening their mouths to share. It is all they have ever known. But at the same time, those ladies are seated beside part of the town clergy that is trying to hold his own marriage together, an executive that has his mistress knocked up at the same time as the wife, or the guy that was molested, that only feels wanted when he is being used and abused by posting ads on CL daily wanting to suck the cock of strangers just to feel something besides the pain that some bastard inflicted on him years ago. So everybody has their own reason for doing things the way they do, why they do them, and who they chose to do.
If I had not been at a few of the meetings that I attended, if I didn't do research and keep on top of the std rates of the area, and activities of others on the board, I might not sound to be such a pretentious cunt in some of my postings. But... I stand my ground here and hope you all realize that I am just a cunt that knows what I want and why I want it.
No hard feelings BBG. In a way I envy your ability to conduct yourself the way you do. I only have enough patience for a couple guys a week. I don't want it to feel like a marriage, having to put out everyday and having to put up with someone everyday. Trying to get me to sit still long at a time is like trying to catch a greased pig naked! I am a ball of positive energy.
**Yes that has actually happened. It was a yearly tradition. I don't know if it truly made the skin more crispy, or made it taste better to run it till it couldn't shit no more. A whole field full of different levels of inebriation at 9am on the 4th, and many different beautiful naked people, covered in coconut oil chasing the main course for the evening made me believe anything and able to pitch that story to everyone. I can say some of the best times of my life has happened while being naked, with friends... anyone interested in having a pig pickin, I'm your girl! You have to make sure to let the neighbors know what you are doing or you will have several questions to answer.
Please forgive me if I have offended the meat haters or people of Jewish beliefs. The pig was not harmed during any of this, only killed.