I say dinner after the BCD. That way you build up your hunger . Originally Posted by rrabbit6926I've tried it both ways and dinner after the session is the way to go for me. If I eat a meal beforehand it slows me down. But if I abstain from dinner before the session, the session is better it seems.
...No need to worry dear, we can eat later....too!!
I can't relax and enjoy dinner knowing I have to perform for 90 min. to 2 hours after, so I simply don't deal with it. I like to make sure the guy gets his full time bcd, then we can relax at dinner without worrying..... Originally Posted by London Rayne
I disagree with the notion that dinner is more $$$ for the provider. Maybe I was unclear when I brought it up. The money aspect is actually more money spent by the client with some of it going to the restaurant. I'd never begrudge a provider on her rates for certain packages.Somebody has been watching, When a Man Loves a Woman lol. "Can you do me a favor and pick up my dry cleaning...you see I am a pilot and just found out I have to fly out."
London, I like your approach to the public time and BCD time. At least it is more reasonable than what some other providers advertise. Usually the ones I noticed are in large metro areas and I assume the dinner and playtime locations are relatively close in terms of proximity-- maybe even at the restaurant at the hotel as most downtown hotels have a restaurant in them.
BTW, I do have this fantasy of meeting a provider at a bar for drinks and then retiring for BCD activities. It is my fantasy of meeting a stranger and picking her up. Obviously, I can only fantasize about this. Either that or indulge in the fantasy when I am far, far out of town by myself and not associated with meetings or a trade group. Originally Posted by Cpalmson
Somebody has been watching, When a Man Loves a Woman lol. "Can you do me a favor and pick up my dry cleaning...you see I am a pilot and just found out I have to fly out."
Oh Ed, let us eat! Originally Posted by London Rayne