I've noticed that for some reason men are having major difficulties with providing screening information. If you were apart of the hobby prior to the seizure, then you should know better. Period. Too many men are too hot to trot, and are flowing in from BP unfortunately. You should never see a provider without providing her some form of verification. I personally don't care how BP was run. We all want to safely enjoy ourselves. Don't contact providers with no intention of verifying yourself. It's a literal unsafe, highly questionable waste of time. While some ladies may be very hard up for cash, not all of us are willing to be persecuted over a potential meeting. I've been getting an influx of messages from unserious time wasters. Step it up guys. Learn how screening works, and stop being scary. We need to ensure our safety too. 🙄
Originally Posted by Amina Aston
I do understand the need for references but then again, anything that links my hobby and real world identities is a definite no,and trust me, the requests are ridiculously too personal. Example is someone asking for my real first and last name and a copy of my drivers license. While I understand the need for it, it's not supposed to be hard to help hobbyists have some privacy during the process. Maybe suggest a method for newbies that addresses their need for discretion.