What just happened?

Wow, you tipped her. I have nothing to say after that.

wow, she saw you coming.

It’s common knowledge that providers charge more than their normal rate when on the road because they have a lot of extra expenses that they don’t have working from home.

Shame on you for not paying her!!!

self edit, where is that drincking posting threAD?

Her surprise seemed genuine and thinking back I have to wonder if someone, like a handler, was supposed to update her site and did not. Of course if that's the case, then it still hasn't been done.

She did back off once she saw the evidence. Yes, I was stupid to tip her but I was pretty upset at that point. Apparently she did see me coming.

She is from my home state and I spent the weekend there as a sort of a birthday trip. She COULD have become an ATF, she is certainly well versed in the erotic arts. And it isn't like I didn't check her out first. And we spent months flirting and chatting in PM's and posts elsewhere. I even PM'd a couple of guys that I know have seen her. One of these guys counts her as his ATF. I got nothing but good reports on her.

As for seeing her again, not likely. I'm taking a break from the hobby now (and that was the plan before this all came up). My birthday was to be my last playtime. Don't know when or if I'll return.

My thoughts: after all your "flirting" and off-hours friendliness, she tabbed you for a sucker and figured you wouldn't argue about giving her more money.

If she quit, you wouldn't be able to see her on p411. And oddly enough the ladies I saw way back when never checked, I figure until I left. Always thought that was weird. I mean I never cheated anybody in my life, but how would they know. Also you threw in a tip for shenanigans? I mean, I'm no better but still. Giving a manicurist a few extra bucks even after she nipped some skin but is different than her running a scam and acting like the price ain't right there.

In my mind I like to pretend the lady who does the pedicure get all the tip. It's not true though. :/

The facts are:
(a) I saw a provider out of state.
(b) The envelope was in plain sight from the time she walked in the door.
(c) She did not check said donation until AFTER the session.
(d) She then accused me of shorting her.
(e) I am shocked, embarrassed and dismayed but SHE offers to check her webite. Lo and behold my donation is CORRECT, according to the site (and P-411 which I checked after she left).
(f) She backs off, but I gave her a tip (no snickers now)

So what should I think? I spent a lot of time flirting with this lady before traveling to another state to see her. She accused but then offered to check the facts and backed off when it showed I was right.

She said that she'd forgotten to update it (and P-411 which showed the same donation level).

Ladies, could you do that? Raise your rates and FORGET to fix your sites? (She doesn't advertise as far as I know and has stopped playing). Would you do that just to get a tip?

It confuses me even after over a month. And I checked her site this moring. The donation remains THE SAME as it was. What gives?

BTW she no longer plays, at least she doesn't advertise or get reviewed on any site that I am on. She told me she was quitting but since we had flirted so much and it was for my birthday she saw me. Originally Posted by 1Curiousguy

I have run into this issue twice.. both times I showed the lady the lower rate on site and both times I told her that was the rate I was willing to pay.

There are a few ladies on here who do their ads in what I think are the best way.

Regardless of where they post their ads with photos as to what part of town, availability etc.. they have a link to their on CENTRAL website that has contact info, and rates.

This way they have 1 place to update.

This is a sign of a smart lady and that keeps them on my list of favs to call

Wow...you should of gave a spankn without the tip!!!