Talents that keeps my clients coming back

Good topic......

As Laura Lynn stated, the pics on showcase or the ads of a provider may entice a potential client to initiate contact and even set an appointment, but it the action after that first contact and of course, during the session, that retains that client to come back for future visits.

I prefer a provider who makes me glad that I chose her to contact and see as opposed to the hundreds of other ladies who are out there. And, while in her presence, gives me 100% of her attention, makes the effort me feel important enough that I do not feel as if I am an ATM machine or just another guy on the assembly line.

In all honesty, I would rather J/O to free porn on the internet than to see a provider who has an obvious disdain for guys that choose to pay for a GFE experience. Why would any guy want a provider who shows very little or no emotional response, aka IOP, has an all business like attitude, and makes the session as if he is basically with a lifeless blow up doll for the hour?

Hey...I didn't get any coffee???? Originally Posted by DownForWhatever

My bad love....I'll make it Irish for you next time lol

Every one has a preference, it takes one to focus on each others bodies and how we react to one another. There are guys who are just in town for the night, then I have had many gentleman who I have known for years.
I know where to touch them , how to touch them , and even learned some of there week spots that can make there toes curl and legs shake. I am Gentle and Sweet .
Even if I had the crummiest day,
The fact that out of all the girls in DFW, I was chosen
from you to take time with me , makes a girl like me happy.
Therefore I show you my appreciation the best way I know how.
I am not a porn star but can dang near pass for one,
I am not wifey material , but I will listen to you,
I am not a stripper , but I know how to twerk!
I don't talk too much on the first date,
I don't know if that is a plus or minus .. haha.
Perhaps I can get some feedback on that.
I like to make you feel safe and secure with my presence rather than how fancy my place is, If I can give you guys a mansion to visit me in, I would. We all know how life goes , so if I can at least make you feel appreciated in every way, for one time or multiples I want you to be satisfied.
I have been a provider for a long time , and I think your question OP has put a spark in me, I have taken many breaks in and out of the hobby and I am grateful to be part of all the
fun times that keeps the hobby alive.

Hugs n Kisses
Melannie

Lady Melanie....
Well said, you have the attention of anyone who might happen to read this thread.
Ladies are many things to us in this hobby, many of us men are roaring lions that provide for the pride, some of us are humanitarians that see the world differently and some of us men know when to stop and hear some truth..... you spoke the truth
You be the best provider you can be, honest and knowing who you are and what you want from this hobby....
I think I might have had a brain orgasm just then.....
Your the kind of lady I’d like to meet up with....
Y’all be well.

1. Comfort. It has been said in more than one encounter report that I have a knack for making my friends feel comfortable instantly, as though they've known me for years.

2. My incredible memory. (that's memory, not mammories ya pervs!!). I have several regulars that are nearing that decade mark of having been returning friends of mine. And those guys can all tell you, I remember each and every one of their little "things" that really gets their engine revving.

3. I blend. I'm never going to make the list of the "Hottest providers" in Dallas. Not because I'm not attractive, but because I'm cute. Which.. also helps keep me below the radar. I can go to lunch with someone 20 years my senior, and it still doesn't look untoward. I can go to a business function and fit in seamlessly because I know how to dress, speak, and present myself to keep from raising suspicion. (its also why, despite my love for the look, I ditched the crazy hair color quickly-- it really went against "brand").

Which.. also helps keep me below the radar. I can go to lunch with someone 20 years my senior, and it still doesn't look untoward. I can go to a business function and fit in seamlessly because I know how to dress, speak, and present myself to keep from raising suspicion. (its also why, despite my love for the look, I ditched the crazy hair color quickly-- it really went against "brand"). Originally Posted by Grace Preston

This.

Being a provider is getting a little more socially acceptable. More ladies are "coming out" to family and friends. And so they're ok posting face pics along with easily identifiable features (unique tats, piercings etc). And while being a provider isn't as as bad, in this current metoo environment being the client of a provider is!

And since I like extended visits and occasional travel companions, I have to be causious with easily identifiable providers.

Sorry to go rogue tangent on ya there Gracie....

One bad thing about the "Me Too" environment is these people insist that providers need "saving". Even when the providers straight up tell them: "No we don't"

I mean, I appreciate what the "metoo" movement is doing, but they do have some blind spots.

For me I believe it's my personality and the attention that I give to him each and every time.
I provide a safe and drama free environment that's clean and provide the little extra things that we need to make our time relaxing .

He knows my appearance will be just as the last visit

He can expect and deserve a clean and safe environment
at every visit .
Repeat clients are the best as we get a sense of kindness that we have given to each other every time.

We can learn something new about each other , what turns us on more and more as we get more comfortable .
He know's and expect the highest level companionship with each visit
as I give 100% every time .

Causally putting her ankles behind her ears usually does it for me

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Maybe a lady provides a safe environment where a gent feels relaxed enough explore his sensuality or a place where he can get his kink on.
Maybe it's the way a lady handles herself and has good TCB.

Don't forget about the convenience of her location or how tidy she keeps it.

... Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

This is on mark for me, although no much the last one (tidiness). Not sure that matters to me. But TCB does. It's first. And probably second. Good TCB skills are so rare and so endearing. A good mix of flirting, screening, kindness, business sense, and humor go a long way.

Good post.

Location (what all ladies should show in their ads and ISO replays), service , and rates keep me coming back for more.

I think all of these ladies have great point on this. Me personally I like tha HR or longer sessions to you talk and find out something about You ladies. I want to know what your likes and dislikes are to make a better overall session for both of us.
Gina and I have had our conversations about this a few times. For the record I would like to say thank you to all of you beautiful ladies out there for everything you do for us.

Acting skills. The illusion of passion isn't that hard for good actresses.

But if she just lays there with head turned away, eyes clamped shut, asking me to hurry up (while there's still plenty of time on the clock) then I probably won't be back. Originally Posted by Hercules

Definitely. Ladies who operate like this actually make it HARDER to cum. Because this is such a turnoff, the guy ends up having to try harder (i.e. pounding more vigorously, flipping her around trying to find the ‘perfect’ position, wanting bb), can’t keep wood. The guy starts becoming exasperated. We all react differently. Some of us quit trying and just take the L. Some keep pounding away until they finally do cum. Some turn into asshats’ and want their money back, and possibly get violent.

Terrible attitude can actually KILL a hard-on, though. Great acting on the ladies part does the complete opposite.

Repeat clients are the best as we get a sense of kindness that we have given to each other every time.

We can learn something new about each other , what turns us on more and more as we get more comfortable .
He know's and expect the highest level companionship with each visit
as I give 100% every time . Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF

BINGO!! I love this response!! I very frequently visit my favorite ladies who exhibit this kind of responsiveness to repeat (good) clients.

I actually take it a bit further......if I see someone for the 2nd/3rd time, I ask if they are Ok and comfortable with me seeing them multiple times. I don't want to be "that guy" a lady has to close her eyes and suffer through an appt.

Not all ladies seem to go the extra mile that you mentioned, Gina - but for the ladies that respond positively to multiple visits with me, I go back again and again and again and again and again, especially if they reach out to me every now and then, which results in an immediate appointment.

Just had one a few days ago with one of my favs who reached out late last week (thanks, SB! - love ya, gal!!)

Do any providers cum with a suggestion box?

Anyways, aside from her sincere customer service... the fact that she is able to make you explode even with a cover on (because some of us go BB with our significant others) is a huge advantage over other providers.