How do you feel about a provider calling you?

If a client provides no instructions, it should ALWAYS be assumed NOT to contact him.

It is helpful for a client to give some guideline to a lady regarding calling him. Call me anytime. Never call me, I will always call you. Call me only if I have left a message. Call me only on the day of a scheduled date.

If a lady ignores our instructions, then we have a right to be frustrated or, if she continues despite repeated clarification, to get mad. If we have not communicated our preference to her, we should not be upset if she calls when we would prefer not or does not call when we would prefer that she does. Originally Posted by Redwolf

How do YOU feel about ladies calling you? That's what you should be asking yourself.

AND: What you should be doing when you contact ladies is tell them upfront what's NOT allowed in way of contact. IE: Don't call you unless given permission. It's pretty simple. Lay down the ground rules and use a hobby phone. And IF they go against the ground rules you put forth regarding contacting you. Then indicate to THEM how it doesn't sit well with you.

Pretty simple.

happen to me last week....difficult with the So Originally Posted by pickupkid

AND what did YOU do about it???

I am like the other ladies here, I will NEVER call you unless you call me and indicate for me to do so. (missed messages only).

Even some of my single "friends" have told me I can call them anytime, and I just don't.

It's beyond tacky and rude.

My yahoo messenger may be another thing... but that's another thread. LOL

Genesis Nicole

sure would make me feel special and ease my mind about paying for what i used to chase for free. nice gesture but ur private life had to allow it. I might drive to go see her quicker knowing she thinks about me.

Hate to bust your bubble Windowshopper but she's probably thinking about the $ when she called or text to see how your doing.

Since I'm very very lonely I'd love it if anyone would call me, escort or not.

My number is (251)867-5309, feel free to call anytime.

Haha! I just caught on...I have restored the original, sorry! CC

Since I'm very very lonely I'd love it if anyone would call me, escort or not.

My number is same, feel free to call anytime. Originally Posted by gulflover

Your name isn't Jenny, by chance?

Good catch!

Your name isn't Jenny, by chance? Originally Posted by IDMT

Good catch! Originally Posted by the.namssa

Just showing my age...

My ATF will text me, just to say Hi, but I doubt if it is to rummage up business, since we see each other weekly.

But, I am a widower, have no SO or anyone else to answer to, so I like it.

I think its not a good idea to call to the client first. Our main rule is to be 100% discreet. So in the special situation we can send a reminder sms and an e-mail of course but only that. If the client want to reserve an appointment he or she will call us him/her - self.

Your name isn't Jenny, by chance? Originally Posted by IDMT

No, but I wrote a song about her. Perhaps you've heard of it.

hell ill do messenger any day of the week. even text for that matter....

happen to me last week....difficult with the So Originally Posted by pickupkid

I assume you mean like she called just because? If so and it wasn't like she just missed your call and was calling back then that's just tacky and weird. I don't want any clients no matter how cool I am with them just calling me "just because".

I THINK IT'S DESPERATE ON THE PROVIDER'S BEHALF. UNLESS, YOU'RE CALLING TO GIVE ME A FREEBIE, LEAVE A MESSAGE AND I'LL GET BACK.

DEVIN