Some day I would dearly love to meet youReady when you are catman
Yourdesire. Catman Originally Posted by CatMan4u
I am a switch. Have been for years and I enjoy it immensely. Which side I choose at a particular moment largely depends upon the personality of my partner - and if she too is a switch, it can be a lot of fun! I find that, if you're "into" BDSM, it can certainly help your experience if you know what pleasure you can have from either perspective; makes you a more skilled player, so to speak. I have a lot of experience from both sides, although I will say I don't find a lot of people here on this site into this.Ewwww lets experiment together
Dallas mentions some sites that sell "equipment." There are lots of sites that do this, and there are lots of sites that are for getting people together. However, many/most are just money traps. There are clubs around - not many in KC area - that might be better for finding actual partners.
Anyway, like I said, I have a lot of experience. If you would like more information about this kink in general, shoot me a message and I'll be glad to add what I know! Originally Posted by silvrline