Most guys don't like to openly talk about it. Originally Posted by anitaAbsolutely. I didn't, for many years. I sure wasn't going to discuss it with anyone I didn't think would be open and nonjudgmental. That may seem silly and repressed, esp. here in Austin, but it's the truth.
I doubt we will get many guys open enough to discuss this but let's try. I always loved strap ons. How about you? Originally Posted by sue_namiLet's just say I really don't want to go to prison....
let me stretch your boundaries and it doesn't have to be thru your ass, but that is fun too. Originally Posted by sue_namiSue, I think you nailed it (ahem). The turn on wasn't the ass play in and of itself. It was letting go of control, and you doing things that had never been done to me before. If there had been no ass play you'd have come up with fifteen other ways to thrill me and push my limits, I'm sure of it. The strapon fantasy just provided structure. Any number of other fantasies could do the same, I think. (And the surprises you sprung on me were almost as good as the main event!)
Absolutely. I didn't, for many years. I sure wasn't going to discuss it with anyone I didn't think would be open and nonjudgmental. That may seem silly and repressed, esp. here in Austin, but it's the truth.Aww sweetie,
People in their 20s and 30s seem to be much more open and comfortable with such things. Older people like me, not so much. The vast majority of people my age and older still have the old binary view of sexuality. If a man ever felt the urge to relinquish control and let his partner take charge, he obviously was gay and in denial.
For me the urge to let go was never that strong to begin with. I enjoyed being in control, just not 100% of the time. But rules were rules; if you were a man you had to be in control. Not complaining, just saying that's the way it was. Anyway it was no big deal because hey, sex!
Things are changing, thank god. I wish I'd been born twenty or thirty years later, but then again I'm still young enough to explore. It wasn't an option for about 99% of the men of my dad's generation, so I'm lucky. Originally Posted by Austin Powers
fun2come, I get the prison thing, but the experience bore no resemblance whatsoever to rape (or at least what I imagine rape to be like). Sure, something was sliding up my ass, but that's the only similarity. The same is true of a prostate exam but that's not rape-y either. Originally Posted by Austin PowersWell may be I am in another realm
I think this is still “on topic” if not please forgive.Well try to Double UP and have them tie you down, see how you like that. I could recommend a couple cuties with a mean streak
I really like turning my body over to my provider. I think she is an expert in pleasing a man and by having her “call the shots” lets me fully enjoy her expertise. I have had providers play with my ass and loved it. I hope that someday the stars will align correctly and I will get the opportunity to have Sue play with me. Originally Posted by myfavhobby