I can't stand....

Say what I'm not sure who I am having a harder time with in my mind One that is begging. Or the fool of a buddy.


Yet if it was me, and knew where to sendVermont Teddy Bear with a nice sorry note. Good for all your "I really make a big mistake this time" needs. Linked.

Of course he did! He has been begging to see me again ever since. He even gave my number out to a friend to have the friend vouch for him because I blocked his number (yes, you read that correctly). The friend said that NCNS guy was a really good guy, and if he gave me an envelope with triple my hourly rate, would I see him again? I politely told him, "Never."

Actually, this was one of the times the dreaded phrase was spoken to me. "Never say never," he chuckled. "After all, it's all about the money, isn't it?"

RAWR!! Originally Posted by China Doll

That means to me that he wasn't apologizing but trying to manipulate you into seeing him again. It looks like you managed to eliminate one asshole from your life at the cost of a couple hours of your time.

The stand up that really annoys me is the one where I've just talked to her and she gives me the street where her incall is and says call me when you get to the street and I'll give you the number. Ten minutes later when I call she doesn't answer and never answers or calls back. Come on, not that much can change in your life in ten minutes. It's not like I was an ass on the phone. My conversations are real strait forward. I usually tell a new provider that I saw her ad on the internet and ask to make an appointment. If it isn't clear I'll also ask the price. I never go into details on the phone. That way if the thing where ever to turn to crap there is never any conversation about sex and money in the same conversation.

Chaz...Its very actually insulting when someone treats you like this...at least thats how I tend to feel about the situation..
After all the time you put into screening and times and getting everything together and they blatenly don't show or blow you off...and use crappy excuses on top of it ..if indeed they even have the courage to get back to you...

Hopefully she can get her shit together before this turns into a regular thing with her and the hobby deems her a waste of time...

I for one do not see guys again that blow me off...I don't have the time nor extra money in my pockets to cover up extra expenses that occur due to this type of rude behavior....even if they wanna triple my rate..its very likely I'll still be waiting for them like a fool..thinking he's gonna show..hes gonna show..whatever..save your fake extra money and take it someplace else..cuz the game is over..

I'm sure your atf adores you as much as you adore her and I'm also sure she would never consider you imposing on her time...
She totally blew it cuz...you sir are one of the sweetest gentlemen i have met....nita..
:-D

I understand that sometimes things happen and the Ladies or Gents have no choice but to Cancel.
I have done that, but tried to do it with as much notice as possible.
Sometimes, 3 to 5 days notice, Mostly due to work schedules that would prevent me from keeping the date.
I have been canceled on by a certain provider 7 times, each and every time the reason was very legitimate. Guess what................ NO more, there is a reasonable limit to everything.
On other occasions, I have been canceled on the last minute with similar reasons of "I over slept" and so on. The fact of the matter is that things like this do happen.
What is important is that IF we like each other (Gent & Lady) and you have a good friendship within the hobby, you accept the cancellation and move on. Even try to see her again.
Life is too short to get upset about things like cancellations.

Happened to me recently (stood up) with one of the more reputable providers on this site. Afterwards she said sorry, but I don't think she gave much of a shit to be honest. She didn't offer up another session or anything like that, but just said I'm sorry. I know for a fact it wasn't a hygeine issue or anything like that, so all I have to believe is that she wasted my time because she felt like being incosiderate. She probably figured she would book me and drop the appointment if something else came along. I hope she doesn't treat all her newbies like that, because if she needs new appointments she certainly isn't getting one from me. My advice is to let those ones go, no matter how well reviewed they are. Fool me once, shame on me.......