Goes the other way also. I am upfront with providers of my age during the first talk, proud to be 53. Have had some providers decline to see me because of that. I respect that and move on.
Originally Posted by saxcat81
I saw a young lady that was visiting via eros. I emailed to let her know I'm over 50 and she emailed back that's no problem etc. When we met she said that the agency does all of the communication and she didn't know any of the conversation. I asked to use the bathroom and she said
"Yes of course." I placed the envelope on the dresser, went to the bathroom and washed my hands. Then I took her hand and we just sat on the couch to talk. I made no move to kiss her or touch her. I was reading the conversation and I would have been content to just sit and talk for awhile and I told her so. I felt as though she was being treated like property by the agency and I wasn't going to take part. I guess I wasn't too old and crusty because she took us to bed with a smile. I have not used an agency since then but I might with direct communication.