Ads without phone numbers

No number no call. It's that simple Originally Posted by burkalini

Yeah, that means you email or PM. You're right ... pretty simple.

I don't want anyone calling me until after they've been screened and it's the day of our appointment...I don't go putting my phone number on all my ads because there are far too many wankers who will call to ask idiotic questions or call at 3 in the morning.

When i do list a # in my
ad and ask when contacting
me to please contact me w/a gentlemanly introduction and have screening info
readily available it never happens. The guy always looks a the pics and calls
saying only 'can i see you now?'
Really what guy would want to see a provider who will let you
come by w/out even asking for some type of screening info?

If the ladies preferred method of contact is email, PM what seems to be the problem?

Listing your phone number in your ad equals time wasters giving you brain damage....

When i do list a # in my
ad and ask when contacting
me to please contact me w/a gentlemanly introduction and have screening info
readily available it never happens. The guy always looks a the pics and calls
saying only 'can i see you now?'
Really what guy would want to see a provider who will let you
come by w/out even asking for some type of screening info?

If the ladies preferred method of contact is email, PM what seems to be the problem?

Listing your phone number in your ad equals time wasters giving you brain damage.... Originally Posted by PofDenver

No real problem ....except over the past 4 evenings, I've sent p.m's and e-mails to 5 differant ladies, got 2 responses, anf they were in another city than what their post indicated. I have read may posts from ladies that take exception to a last minute cancellation, and I have NEVER sent multiple p.m.s out for one evening. I think it is inappropiate for any one to request multiple appointments for one evening and than "jump on" the first one, only to cancel IF a "more desirable option calls later. That generally results in some lonely evenings. I rarely am able to make appointments 2 - 3days ahead. I should also note that two of the ladies I contacted via pm/e-mail on Saturday have still not contacted or responded an any way. I don't really know if they got the message even. Are they alive, dead, under arrest ... who knows?????? Guess Ineed to just worry about myself and if I gotta contact 3 or 4 ladiesand than take my pick of the responders, that is just how it is. I don't like doing that, but based on the tone of several responses, that is what is expected. At least if I leave a voice mail, I can at least know that the message either was listened to or that it was deleted. BTW, I was able to set an appointment with a lady that had posted her number .... go figure.

Sounds good babe, you got an appt.
Also sounds as if you have a good head on your shoulders when contacting a provider with her preferred method of contact however we never know what happens when we hit that send button and our message goes off into cyber world.

I wouldnt mind at all if a guy left a gentlemanly VM w/detailed info regarding an appt. but mostly when leaving a number in your ad some ladies get the guys calling for 'right now pussy' and they seem to be clueless when we are asking for screening info.
I know it is gentlemen out here in our lil world and us ladies just have to weed through the b.s.

Glad you got an appt though

Once you put a phone number on line you can google it and it will come up as an escort ad and when these ladies go to hotels a lot of hotel managers will see shes traveling alone and google their phone numbers and if it comes back to escort ad a lot of hotels will refuse service thats why you see the ads that do have number state them like this 903-four 59-six 333 where the number cant be googled.
Most providers are aware of that and either use different phones when traveling or letr their driver get the room.
Thats alot why they dont want to give out numbers ..not to mention all of the prank calls

Sounds good babe, you got an appt.
Also sounds as if you have a good head on your shoulders when contacting a provider with her preferred method of contact however we never know what happens when we hit that send button and our message goes off into cyber world.

I wouldnt mind at all if a guy left a gentlemanly VM w/detailed info regarding an appt. but mostly when leaving a number in your ad some ladies get the guys calling for 'right now pussy' and they seem to be clueless when we are asking for screening info.
I know it is gentlemen out here in our lil world and us ladies just have to weed through the b.s.

Glad you got an appt though Originally Posted by PofDenver

Pof,
You are spot on hon.
The number one question I am asked when consulting with providers is why don't guys understand that we aren't just always sitting by the phone every minute and we have to know something about them before we set up something. How do I stop the I want to come over right now calls?

When talking with providers who don't publish a number they say that is the number one reason. The number two reason has been mentioned here as well which is middle of the night calls, and rude or obnoxious callers and guys who just don't have a clue.
Ladies who have a site that truly lays out just what a guy needs to do to see you with no number seem to be more content with the results.
I have discovered a clear line and on each side are the "Put my add up with a number and take every call and appointment I can squeeze in today" gals and then the " I keep an ad running ( may or may not have a number) all the time and schedule in advance gals"

Also just a note: Many Ladies that schedule in advance save last minute or shorter notice times for their ATFs, regulars and best clients

The only thing I can say is because this is in large part a business that has always catered to the fact that men act on impulse there is always going to be some that cater to that and then there are the hobbyist that have figured out that a little planning can usually ( not always) result in a more gratifying outcome. Phone number or not a little planning is truly a gift in the hobby gents.

A good rule of thumb is send a message wait a day and if no response then send again in case it didn't work. But usually using Eccie or P411 is good because there is no spam box for it to end up in.

I always recommend gals put in showcases, websites and such when they won't be available ( vacation, etc) Or if they have a tendency to respond slowly or not check VMs or emails often or at all ....say it in your profiles websites showcase and such.

Beside I know many that publish phone numbers and rarely answer the phone. Our listen to the VMs left