GETTING FROM A TO B Pricing......?
I'll be happy to explain my position. Let’s see how can I put this.... I only pay for BCD time! When a HOT provider takes care of Little Still Looking, Big Still Looking has a reasonability to compensate for that service! Eating lunch, having dinner, flying to Las Vegas, staying at the Bellagio, seeing shows, and enjoying time together... ah no! I don't BUY friendship! But hey, if you can get a guy to come over and paint the trim on your house and have him pay you... Rock On! But I suspect your either going to get out your check book or compensate him in one way or another! The best times in life are the “Sweet N Little” ones we all share with friends we care about! Why do I suddenly have an urge to find a lady wearing a red dress and eat berries? Life is good!
Originally Posted by Still Looking
You "don't BUY friendship" but you'll buy the intimacy of BCD with a provider and consider that a good time and a memory to share with someone you obviously must like? I will never understand men. (Btw, I painted my own house trim this year. Does that mean I have to buy myself something nice now?
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Doesn't really matter, as everyone knows what's important to THEM. I like friendships with benefits and I can be VERY beneficial for my friends, indeed. Most of life is a trade-off in one way or another. Some ways are just more obvious.
You "don't BUY friendship" but you'll buy the intimacy of BCD with a provider and consider that a good time and a memory to share with someone you obviously must like? I will never understand men. (Btw, I painted my own house trim this year. Does that mean I have to buy myself something nice now?)
I did not say that! What I said was:I only pay for BCD time! I don't NEED or DESIRE to pay someone to have lunch, dinner etc. I do that with friends! I don't buy friendship! Now if you have gentleman that are willing to pay you for that, I think that is great! And if that’s happening why not have them paint your trim and pay you for that also! I'm NOT wrong because you disagree with me, and you’re not wrong because I make different choices than you! And the last thing I would do is knock a fellow hobbyist on how he spends his money! And your right... you will probably never understand men. Hell, try and figure out woman if you want a challenge! The next hobbyist that comes over, show him what a great job you did painting the trim... if he is a gentleman and your enthusiastic about your accomplishment, I bet he will buy you lunch! He might even pay you for your time! But that won't be me! Now, I would have come over to give a helping hand and hold the ladder. (Especially if you had on a Dress or Skirt!) LOL!
Doesn't really matter, as everyone knows what's important to THEM. I like friendships with benefits and I can be VERY beneficial for my friends, indeed. Most of life is a trade-off in one way or another. Some ways are just more obvious.
Originally Posted by Fancyinheels
I think it does matter or we wouldn't be talking about it! But your right life does have its little trade offs! Hey, after you finished painting you must have got some paint on yourself? Did any "Friends" offer to come over and rub it off? Hell, I was a painter for 19 years! Never did think I was going to finish that bath room!
I'm sorry, but I thought we were joking around with this. I didn't think you were taking me that seriously, as most people are aware of my odd sense of humor. I wasn't trying to "knock" any hobbyist, and I was being facetious about the "understanding men" comment. Wouldn't still be in this biz after 4 years if I didn't have at least a rudimentary working knowledge. My apologies if I offended you, which sounds like I did. I won't try to make light of this subject further.
I'm sorry, but I thought we were joking around with this. I didn't think you were taking me that seriously, as most people are aware of my odd sense of humor. I wasn't trying to "knock" any hobbyist, and I was being facetious about the "understanding men" comment. Wouldn't still be in this biz after 4 years if I didn't have at least a rudimentary working knowledge. My apologies if I offended you, which sounds like I did. I won't try to make light of this subject further.
Originally Posted by Fancyinheels
I am serious about how I feel, but we are just joking around... at least I was! Or did you really think I was painting a bathroom for 19 years? ECCIE needs more voices like yours. Keeps us hobbyist in check. I mean ISIS, Sweet N Little & Irish Vixen only has so much time on their hands! And hey just because "WE" make light of something, doesn't mean we take it lightly!
I am serious about how I feel, but we are just joking around... at least I was! Or did you really think I was painting a bathroom for 19 years? ECCIE needs more voices like yours. Keeps us hobbyist in check. I mean ISIS, Sweet N Little & Irish Vixen only has so much time on their hands! And hey just because "WE" make light of something, doesn't mean we take it lightly!
Originally Posted by Still Looking
Well, I won't tell you how long it took me to paint that dang trim.
Kinda has a Picasso-leprechaun look to it.
Probably shouldn't have been drinking the Jameson at the same time.
Hmmm, sounds like a new sexual move, "hold the ladder." Panties or natural under the skirt?
Natural. And pass the Jameson's, pls . . . *L*
Natural. And pass the Jameson's, pls . . . *L*
Originally Posted by SlowHand49
Hey SlowHand... you stay out of this I got FancyInHeels right where I want her!
Natural Please!
Fancy, you were one of the few who actually visited me during my darkest times and I will forever be grateful. You have a lovely heart. Now if I could only get you to answer my pm's, lol.
Hey SL, your sarcasm did come off a bit harsh, but it was handled well.
