Guys, If your SO started putting out...

I love this thread Ms Aphrodites, I have wondered this too, as I havent always been on this site but I have done this for a long time and so has numerous people in my family, I saw married men or guys that had s/os usually older and theyd pay my rent or car payments or so on up north and I noticed then to it was because of something at home, which I understand, you dont provide your man will find it somewhere else, shit if I have a man and he doesnt give me enough I will go somewhere else too lol but for the men whose wives do give it up and all then whats the reason???? Is it boardom or.....
Do you fuck your wives or s/o's like you do us? Do you make it as exciting for them as you do for us? maybe theres a problem there too....
Just thinking out loud I guess lol

Do you fuck your wives or s/o's like you do us? Do you make it as exciting for them as you do for us? maybe theres a problem there too....
Just thinking out loud I guess lol Originally Posted by shayla84

I would if she'd allow me to....

Not all have the same sex drive as you, and some don't care for it at all.

Everybody has their qualities though.

The issue is society giving the whole sex thing a bad name. If society decided that having lunch/dinner with a woman and paying for her meal is frowned upon then we'd be in the same boat... oh well.

And what sir are you saying about my sex drive lol I am not that bad And theres been many times I pay for my guys dinner or something cause I invited and plus I make about 2000 more then them a month so I figure its only fair you take care of my sexual needs I take care of you, I am kinda like a man in that way lol Is that bad lol

Shayla,

When are you taking me out to dinner? Lol!

Just kidding girl.

If my wife had some passion left I wouldn't be here, but the routine of the same sex because she's not into trying new stuff kills me. Plus no oral sex? That's bullshit. Single guys, you need a sex questionnaire completed by your girlfriends before you pop the question.

.. and when are you taking care of my sexual needs again??? I can run a Shayla special, just for you, I am available, hmmm, let me see, after next week.

No kidding here.

My SO is in another city 150 miles away. I only get to see her on the weekends, so factoring in menstrual cycles and headaches, we are averaging sex about twice a month. Looking forward to her making the move here later this summer so things can get back to 'normal'. Until then, there are a few ladies here I would like to spend some time with. I know I'm an old dog, but maybe I can learn a few new tricks which can help spice things up in the bedroom with my SO.

I've only hobbied when Uninvolved in relationships. If I felt I had to hobby to get what I needed the relationship wasn't worth wasting my time on. Life is too short.

Besides deception in a serious relationship would be more stress than I cared to deal with.

Not judging others as I know everyone's circumstances and views on relationships are different.

Define: relationship !
When in a sexual relationship, I get it (it either works or you move on) , what if there is no sex in the relationship... OR sex is not the foundation of the relationship?

I think people can be in a relationship and still shop for other stuff, after all even if your SO is a chef cook, you'd still eat out sometime.

A couple times a week, lots of kissing and cuddling, once or twice a month in the shower and a bj once or twice a month is all it would take to get me to stop hobbying altogether. Sadly, that's not happening and hasn't been for years, so here I am.

Great Question, thanks for bringing it up..
I will speak up from an entirely different prospective.
My wife is GREAT in bed, BBBJTC are the norm, role play, mid day trysts, multiple forms of play are always on the table and available, yet we see providers for FUN..
Yes, WE....
She's bi, and loves to play with ladies, she's also an exhibitionist, so loves an audience. She's sexy as hell, and meets any and all fantasies and makes up new one occasionally.
WE SEE providers for variety and entertainment. No issues, no problems.. Many guys aren't as lucky, but I know several of you fine ladies see couples... so there's got to be a reason .... A few of us mongers are lucky enough to share your body, skills, and delightful NSA evenings with our mates.. That doesn't mean there's something missing from our lives, we just like more FUN.. What's more fun than mutually scanning the available playmates together?? Not much!

The main reason I got in the hobby is because I got tired of begging for sex and feeling like a pervert if I suggested something new.

Now she has lost sex as a tool and complains that I don't want her anymore. She is partially right, the attraction is now much lower after meeting some younger girls.

My wife is great in bed but I enjoy other sex partners for variety. While I was going through divorce proceedings with my ex, she wanted to stay together and I simply told her I was not monogamous. Discussion over.

I'm a sex addict, plain and simple. If I don't get it at home, I'll get it here. If I don't get it here and at home, then I'll rub one out. Once that becomes boring, then I'll go to backpage.

Aren't we all somewhat addicted to this? Perhaps its the illusion of intimacy or the variety of providers that draws a man into this hobby. Maybe the lure of monetary gains or the introduction of new people into one's life that gets one intrigued into this line of play. No SO for me, but with my RW profession I don't have much time to date when at this time in my life all I want to do is meet new women, fuck, and get on with my life.

I like the variety!

If my SO would suck dick and allow me to DATY, I wouldn't be out looking. Simple as that. Originally Posted by icuminpeace

No pun intended, but damn that sucks dude! I don't think I've ever been with a gal, in or out of the hobby, that did not at least like DATY.