I agree with the OP. I would never have considered hobbying while pregnant. I couldn't fathom endangering my children in such a way. But then, the same thing can be asked regarding pregnant women who drink, smoke, or do drugs. They have zero respect for the child they are carrying. I do understand the sense of financial desperation that can come with pregnancy, but there are so many programs out there to help those women specifically. Its just sad... We all (both sides) take a calculated risk in this hobby with every person we meet. As consenting adults, thats fine. But to place that child in harms way is completely unacceptable imho... Originally Posted by VegasJen
To me it is a personal decision. If it does not appeal to you as a hobbyist don't indulge. If it does not appeal to you as a provider, don't do it, the dad can support you. Just don't judge those that do.hahahahaha... really?
I'm not sure I understand the safety of the child issue? People fuck when pregnant all the time, how will that harm the child?
If you mean that the provider is in danger meeting a new hobbyist, how big of a concern is that really with the screening that takes place? Using that logic, people that are pregnant should not drive, they could be in an accident, that is not in the best interest of the child, correct? Originally Posted by bule84
I agree with the OP. I would never have considered hobbying while pregnant. I couldn't fathom endangering my children in such a way. But then, the same thing can be asked regarding pregnant women who drink, smoke, or do drugs. They have zero respect for the child they are carrying. I do understand the sense of financial desperation that can come with pregnancy, but there are so many programs out there to help those women specifically. Its just sad... We all (both sides) take a calculated risk in this hobby with every person we meet. As consenting adults, thats fine. But to place that child in harms way is completely unacceptable imho... Originally Posted by VegasJenI said almost the exact same thing several years ago, and have yet to live it down. I agree with this110%. The one thing ya don't wanna take a chance screwing up, is your own kid. It's THE most irresposible thing a woman could do. I too can understand why one might be tempted, but just as Jen states, and as it was when I said it before, There are programs, plenty of 'em, that will get you through.