I have never gotten anywhere with a stripper. I continue to try . . . Originally Posted by Big Daddy MooseIts an art, not a science, except for Logan. He IS the master
- Guest082216-1
- 08-04-2010, 02:47 PM
- pmdelites
- 08-05-2010, 09:30 AM
I have a theory that men either love strippers or they are completely baffled by why the guys that like them put up with them at all. I'm in the latter camp. I see no appeal whatsoever to strippers if the other choice is a provider. But others clearly have other ideas. Originally Posted by TexTushHogi can understand why guys go to strip clubs, esp. after reading Bubba3452's long post. however, i agree w/ TexTusHog on this - if the choice is between an unknown stripper and an escort w/ many reviews and photos, i'll go w/ the hopefully surer bet - the escort.
better yet, find an escort who is also a dancer. there are several of them who advertise here and will give you a private lap dance before the extras are delivered.
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but back to your question ginger, "are strippers more...open minded....more crazy....more fun....more uh hem....experienced in certain techniques?"
since i have very little experience getting any sort of extras w/ strippers, all i can say is that most of the ones i've seen are very comfortable w/ their bodies and showing it off. and that says a lot in the old u.s. of a. being able to disrobe partially or completely [like at jaguar's or pt's] takes a lot of balls/guts and i give dancers mucho credit for doing so.
being an escort takes even more balls/guts and i give escorts even mas mucho credit for doing so.
but, to me, what makes these women different is their attitude toward sexuality and sexual activities. in general, they seem much more open to possibilities without guilt, recriminations, jealousy, baggage, uptightness, etc. knowing that one can visit an escort and in less than 5-10 mins be in never-never land is incredible, given our culture.
a) how long does it take to get there with a non-escort/dancer woman? and b) what's the probability of her not feeling weirded out after you two have danced the horizontal mambo or received fellatio from her if you're lucky??
a) much longer than 5-10 mins and b) probably less than 50/50.
so, from a sexuality point of view, i can easily understand why a guy would go visit a strip/nude club and/or an escort.
- Guest082216-1
- 08-05-2010, 10:26 AM
[quote=GingerB;4695251) In hobbyist opinion....are strippers more...open minded....more crazy....more fun....more uh hem....experienced in certain techniques? GingerB[/quote]
Back to your question, here are some thoughts. Very general, always exceptions but applies to a lot of strippers, especialy the good ones
Strippers are disrobed almost the whole time they are working. No clothing to help cover up any flaws or push things around. They have no control over who may see them this way. As you said, lots of hungrey eyes sometimes. So, they very quickly have to become extremely self confident in their bodies knowing they are not perfect. This can be an EXTREME turn on for a guy.
I think strippers are more open to things like heavy petting, NE, SE, even some of the more extreme activities in a club. And, they have to be skilled at working fast and covering their actions. Think about giving a guy a HJ or FS with other people, managers, customers, co-workers and possibiliy LE walking by only a few feet, if that, away from you. Talk about balls!
They are interacting with possibily 100's of guys a day. They have to deal with many, many different requests and offers all the time. They have to be very good at reading a guy. No screening process for them. The good ones become very, very good at changing their style to meet the customers needs very quickly and avoiding gutys that are trouble.
Strippers live in a different world than providers. I don't think of one as better than the other, just different. Strippers, as a group, may have some advantage in some areas but both have their place and value. Providers tend to be less flakey, more dependable as a group and that is very important too.
If you ever decide to give a stage a shot, be sure to let us know. We will be there for you!!!!!
Back to your question, here are some thoughts. Very general, always exceptions but applies to a lot of strippers, especialy the good ones
Strippers are disrobed almost the whole time they are working. No clothing to help cover up any flaws or push things around. They have no control over who may see them this way. As you said, lots of hungrey eyes sometimes. So, they very quickly have to become extremely self confident in their bodies knowing they are not perfect. This can be an EXTREME turn on for a guy.
I think strippers are more open to things like heavy petting, NE, SE, even some of the more extreme activities in a club. And, they have to be skilled at working fast and covering their actions. Think about giving a guy a HJ or FS with other people, managers, customers, co-workers and possibiliy LE walking by only a few feet, if that, away from you. Talk about balls!
They are interacting with possibily 100's of guys a day. They have to deal with many, many different requests and offers all the time. They have to be very good at reading a guy. No screening process for them. The good ones become very, very good at changing their style to meet the customers needs very quickly and avoiding gutys that are trouble.
Strippers live in a different world than providers. I don't think of one as better than the other, just different. Strippers, as a group, may have some advantage in some areas but both have their place and value. Providers tend to be less flakey, more dependable as a group and that is very important too.
If you ever decide to give a stage a shot, be sure to let us know. We will be there for you!!!!!