Provider Committment!

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Yep. If you don't want to see the guy for whatever reason...just tell him...never an excuse for a NC/NS...
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Sounds like a bunch of us owe the Original Poster a big apology.
Why would anyone owe him an apology?

There hasn't been any discussion of this from either party on here and I saw nothing on ProviderBuzz or NBL.
Yep. If you don't want to see the guy for whatever reason...just tell him...never an excuse for a NC/NS... Originally Posted by Wakeuр
Most of us doing this are big boys on here . I know it might be a different concept for a provider but telling me she will not be meeting I can handle.
But tell me beforehand not just not answer any calls. If they checked references like they said they did the I got the cop feeling is a crook of shit.
Ms Elena check the Mens Lounge. lol
I had a similar situation with Bristol just this last week. Contacted her a while back and went through the screening process, which all came back good. Agreed on a time and said she would prefer outcall for the first visit due to ncns. I agreed, i would get a room. Day before the appt i contacted her and she said we were still on and she couldnt wait. Day of, i contacted her and she asked for location. I told her where, and when i checked in i would give her room#. I got there about a half hour early and sent her info. She said she was on her way and might be a few mins late. About 15mins after the initial time of appt i sent her a text with no reply. Then about 30 mins after i sent her one with a reply that she wasnt feeling well and could we reschedule for a discounted rate. I understood and agreed. We worked out a time the following week and she said she would get the room this time so we dont have this happen again. So the next week comes along and i shoot her a message the day before and i didnt hear back (which it was my phones fault, my messages werent showing up) So the day of I sent her a message on here and she said we were still good. So she sent me message and said where to go. I arrive and she tells me where to park she will give me the room here in a few. About 10-15mins after the scheduled appt. time, i sent her another message which she replied that the a/c was broke and they are moving her rooms. So i said ok, just let me know when you get the new room. About 30 mins after the scheduled appt i sent her a message and asked if everythings ok, i get a reply that shes waiting and there are some other screw ups the office is trying to deal with. Well about 45 mins after the scheduled time she messages me and says that because of all this she is going to have to find someone to deal with her other obligations she had for that day (pick someone up/etc.) I asked if she needed me to do anything (reschedule, come back later etc.) She replied, no thanks i just dont know what to do.
Well that was the last i heard from her, I sat in the parking lot for an hour and half. Sent her several messages after seeing if she was still there or what the deal was.
No replies, have sent her some on here since. Still no replies.
Same experience.
Set up an appt a few days in advance. Confirmed the night of. And a few hrs out sent the address. She replied, then never showed. I sent a text and called around 30 minutes after her expected time. Followed up an hr later, just to make sure she was safe and didn't get into an accident on the way.
That's when she stopped responding to everything.
No more replies to email, text, or pm.
No apology, reschedule, or explanation.
Yep. If you don't want to see the guy for whatever reason...just tell him...never an excuse for a NC/NS... Originally Posted by Wakeuр
If a date was committed to, this should always be the protocol!
Ms Elena check the Mens Lounge. lol Originally Posted by big country

Sorry, I don't have access to it. Guess I'm one of the few providers who don't have access to it.
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  • JS42
  • 04-22-2012, 08:15 AM
That's okay Elena, I commend you if you don't. Although I doubt it would take much effort on reaching out to other providers to get updates on the Mens Lounge.

Seems to me kcjimmy has a pretty strong case on said provider.
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There used to be a provider in DFW that NCNS was part of her business model. It became like a badge of honor to have her NCNS on the p. If you ever saw her, she would rock your world.
That's okay Elena, I commend you if you don't. Although I doubt it would take much effort on reaching out to other providers to get updates on the Mens Lounge.

Seems to me kcjimmy has a pretty strong case on said provider. Originally Posted by JS42

Commence your commending


The thing about the locker room is the same about our Powder Room/InfoShare......it shouldn't be shared/leaked, but it is/does. The WK's share locker room info in hopes that the lady will thank him in a special way and I'm sure that there's guys who think that they're helping the lady too. There's ladies and I know MOD's have leaked InfoShare info and Powder Room info just be bitches.

But, back to subject.......there seems to be a lot of NCNSing going on. I don't know the whole story, but from what I've seen on the board lately......the ladies (in general) need to step up their game and start running this as a business or else their clients will go elsewhere.

There's no reason for a NCNS on either sides with the exception of death, accident, hospital or family members who don't know about your life showing up unannounced.
There's no reason for a NCNS on either sides with the exception of death, accident, hospital or family members who don't know about your life showing up unannounced. Originally Posted by MsElena
Well said!
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Commence your commending


The thing about the locker room is the same about our Powder Room/InfoShare......it shouldn't be shared/leaked, but it is/does. The WK's share locker room info in hopes that the lady will thank him in a special way and I'm sure that there's guys who think that they're helping the lady too. There's ladies and I know MOD's have leaked InfoShare info and Powder Room info just be bitches.

But, back to subject.......there seems to be a lot of NCNSing going on. I don't know the whole story, but from what I've seen on the board lately......the ladies (in general) need to step up their game and start running this as a business or else their clients will go elsewhere.

There's no reason for a NCNS on either sides with the exception of death, accident, hospital or family members who don't know about your life showing up unannounced. Originally Posted by MsElena
+1.
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Never thought Bristol was the NC/NS type and I even defended her based solely on her rep which was a mistake. Too many people are saying she has done this for there to be no truth what so ever to it.

I find it unlikely that we will ever hear her side of the story and maybe for reasons that aren't her own, but I would be concerned if I set something up with her. I always text before I leave st joe to head to kc for an appt and if i dont hear back i wont leave st joe. So if i showed up and got the no show... I would be very angry.

And Jimmy, if she was already at the hotel, at the very least she could have came out to meet with you and speak face to face. Your story concerns me a great deal because it makes me think she was never even there.