A strap-on question for providers

I also dont charge extra for couples vause I luv pussy! Originally Posted by DallasRain

Wow, Dallas, we have a lot in common!

Im only a little scared! lol Originally Posted by deejohn

So you will trust the lifeguards?
Just checking. And, they are quite cute.

Ms Tori,
Thank you for the reply. Thank you even more for the picture. A pretty lady strapped up is very exciting to see. That being said. I would suggest a brief review of the showcases or ads would show that along with Dallas and a few others, most ladies that offer these services do so at and additional charge.
The ones I really don't get are the ladies that charge the same for strap on play as they do for receiving Greek. Originally Posted by deejohn

Hey babe, thank you for giving me an opportunity to show off that picture. Lol. Although I have to be honest and direct, I believe I fell into a troll trap.

First you don't want upcharges, but then you reveal that you believe people should charge different rates for taking it in the butt vs. giving it to the butt. You negate your entire argument right there.

I understand where you are coming from, in a sense. But what are you trying to accomplish here? Because if you are not careful, your words could influence providers to see their highest rate structure and simply change all their rates to that, thus allowing them to also be all-inclusive. Sure it means most people will be paying more, but then there wouldn't be gripes about upcharges

I do hope that the intention of this thread is not to shame providers who have different rate schedules! Like I said, I never charge more for fetishes, but that's just my style. Where vanilla ends and kink begins is a different line for individual people, and I like things to be seamless.

It's an unregulated market here, babe. And I hope that everyone finds that for which they are looking.

Wow, "troll trap"? I don't remember asking you to post your picture. I simply thanked you for it.

As for negating my argument, I was trying to look at it from the woman's point of view, considering the amount of time and preparation required to receive vs her time and pre-session prep required to give. Taking in to account the difference there, additional cost makes sense to me.

I initially stated that ladies are free to charge whatever they please for whatever activities they desire and I have zero desire to "shame" anyone into anything.

My point is simply this, as a hobbyist, when I am making a decision to spend time with a lady for certain activities, those ladies that profess to "love it" and charge more for the activity, are removed from my list. The reason being is I feel that it is not truly an activity they enjoy but rather just another service they are willing to provide. The difference is important to me.

All that said, these are only my thoughts and may not apply to any other person on this board. My hope in starting the thread was that perhaps one or more of the ladies that do charge more might explain it, because maybe I have missed something.

Anyway thanks for your reply and have a wonderful day

I feel that all Fetishes have there appropriate donations. I have a range of donations depending on the fetish you are asking for....That doesn't mean I don't love what I do or have lack of interest. I cater to very extreme fetishes and couldn't ask for the same donation for them as I would for Prostate/Strap-on. Experience, knowledge and the proper equipment all come into play as well... I ask for more with fetishes because you are asking me to provide way more than the Standard Encounter.... You get what you pay for.... Kisses Winter

No upcharge over here