Incalls

Interesting .... even if it is relatively nice residential neighborhood? Originally Posted by GayleMeyers

Sometimes nosy neighbors are worse than a 2 star hotel. Just look at the posts on that app, Nextdoor. Every 3rd house has a Gladys Kravitz posting about everything they see.

At least where I live the cheap hotels/motels are more likely to be used in stings. Even if the lady is well reviewed or I have seen her before she could now be compromised. I would decline the visit.

3* accommodations, please, regardless if it’s a hotel or apartment. I won’t bitch about the rate if you don’t make me worry about where I’m parking my ride.

The answer is:


It depends.



Home
PRO

• Can be nicer than a hotel
• No need for going through a side door after 10pm
• Instills trust with the client and provider (usually

Hotel
PRO

• May have a bar you can wait at.
• Access to fresher amenities (towels, sheets) sometimes
• Easy to get in and out of for parking
• Good alibi if during business hours

Home CON

• May be a total dump in a ghetto
• Nosy neighbors may rat you out
• Could be unhygienic

Hotel CON

• May be a dumpy Notel known for stings or seedy people (pimps waiting to rob you)
• Parking may suck (one way in one way out)

For me, I prefer nice apartments in the style K Girl agencies run it (guest parking area, buzz in or keycode given, clean and upscale with soap, towels and refreshments) or homes such as:


Gracy (quiet neighborhood, nice large home, dedicated bedroom and bath area and alcoholic beverages).



Yoko is another good example of a hybrid of these and also the massage crew of Dawn, Nicole and Grace. And MandyofFW back in the day.

There is one provider only I have met with regularly (1-2 Fridays a month overnights) at an upscale hotel.
Valet is required but as a regular, I billed it to her room and we had breakfast the next morning. This probably is not common but damn if she wasn't amazing massage and gfe.


If a provider is trusting me with her home address, I think thats a big deal because of all the crazy, stalking assholes out there. Plus its nice to just come over after you have a regular arrangement instead of getting address and number of the next hotel they booked.


That's not to say I haven't been in total dumps that made me say Never Again to some providers who have no standards for hygiene and cleanliness.

Much more comfortable with a private home incall.

LOL!
I feel the same way about down-scale hotels, even if the guy screens well: he may be compromised and this is a trap!

It’s the surroundings. Cheap hotel in a bad neighborhood is a no go. Cheap hotel in a well established neighborhood without all the extra ruff raff is ok. Private residences aren’t so bad as long as they aren’t in a bad place. I think you just have to trust your gut and the vibe you get.

It’s the surroundings. Cheap hotel in a bad neighborhood is a no go. Cheap hotel in a well established neighborhood without all the extra ruff raff is ok. Private residences aren’t so bad as long as they aren’t in a bad place. I think you just have to trust your gut and the vibe you get. Originally Posted by RachelR

Agreed. I really pay attention to what other guys say about the incall choice when I’m considering seeing someone new.

...I think you just have to trust your gut and the vibe you get. Originally Posted by RachelR

So. Much. This!

Comfortable with both, but prefer residential.

Agreed. I really pay attention to what other guys say about the incall choice when I’m considering seeing someone new. Originally Posted by TinMan

Guy's comfort levels are all different, I'm sure my places wouldn't work for 90% of you guys, you guys wouldn't even unlock your doors of your cars

It is Denton. not much above a ** to **1/2

Guy's comfort levels are all different, I'm sure my places wouldn't work for 90% of you guys, you guys wouldn't even unlock your doors of your cars Originally Posted by BLM69

Hell, I probably wouldn’t even drive my car through some of those neighborhoods anymore. I traded lean and mean for fat and happy years ago.

So the cheaper hotels would cause you to not see someone, even if her reviews were good? Originally Posted by GayleMeyers

Definitely

I used to utilize a few of the nicer 2 and 2.5 star locales... but these days-- its 3 or better. I prefer to minimize the risk and honestly-- when you're charging 200-300-400 per hour, there's really no excuse for checking into a Motel 6.