Oh wow, sorry to hear about your experience. It sounds like it was a truly wretched time. It serves as a reminder that some men do engage in review culture for the purpose of degrading women. His review profile is straight trash in my opinion. And I also agree that there is something
off to say the least about a man that can't be pleased by
any woman. This is something that I also use to filter out people I will not meet with and after perusing both the public comments on his review and your account, I will continue sticking with this policy. Like I totally get if a client has one or two "No" reviews out of more than a dozen positive reviews. But a ratio of 60% (now 66.6%) negative reviews will always tell me more about that client than it does about any of the providers who supposedly delivered bad service.
I saw Willtay's ISO night before last and decided to meet him on the spur of the moment. I did screen him & noted at the time that 3 of the 5 reviews he had (now 4 of 6) were negative. I usually do not see people with more negatives than positives because I feel it must be a problem with them or their decision process. I decided to take a chance on him and see him anyway...1st mistake.
Originally Posted by Lexieinhouston
Fat shamers be damned! By looking at your showcase and a sampling of your reviews, it is pretty easy to gain a sense of your body type. And since it is the case that you sent him a photo and he could have opted out and saved you and himself the headache, he is a jerk for choosing to see you only so he could pick you apart and belittle you for being plus size.
If Willtay was disappointed by my looks he could have sent me on my way, he did not. It is very well documented by me & in my other all yes reviews that I am a small BBW & also that I am not the youngest Chef on the block. He proceeded with the appointment, so I thought he was fine.
Originally Posted by Lexieinhouston
This is actually abusive and led to you being ill which is totally unacceptable. You do not deserve this mistreatment.
I'm not going to go into great detail here, but basically he decided to start smoking while things were in progress, literally blowing smoke into my face while I was trying to do my job. I hate smoking and it is very clear in my profile that I am a non-smoker. My Mother died of lung cancer & so even the smell really gets to me now. I mentioned this to him, but he continued chain smoking the entire time, blowing smoke my way...
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Originally Posted by Lexieinhouston