Blackbird's Guide for Newbies

Great read BB good job on it

As for the locations I’ve used my home for a few encounters ... couple times with a few eccie ladies but they were long time faves and ( I’ll say this but may get flamed ) I do trust them the few that have been here
Quite a few times with SA chicks and P411 chicks and again it was trusted and I still keep in touch with them
Prob never with a skip chick that’s not Verified or even multiple reviews
It’s just a select few that I’ve been with multiple multiple times! Originally Posted by Gottahavemore
Gottahavemore,

You’ve been hobbying in the Panhandle a lot longer than I have and at a very high level.

I don’t think anyone will flame you for your decisions. You’ve shown good judgment in your previous ventures.

While using your home is always an option, I just don’t think it is one a brand new hobbyist should take. The only possible exception would a sugar baby, but at the discretion of the newbie.
Timing is everything.
Your right definitely not what a newbie should do it did take me a long while to have them over at my place

It’s funny but one provider that was on eccie for a short bit left the scene for a short bit I reached out via Snapchat and found out she lived a couple blocks away from me! Needless to say she made some good money coming over to my place just about every other night for a few weeks and then decided to move to another state ( family things) but that was definitely a good time

I’ve said this over and over throughout the years .... read read read all the reviews you can local and the immediate areas about the provider you can you will gain insight to what the provider likes and doesn’t like and how to carry yourself going into the visit.

If skip is where you want to play go for it but seeing how it’s just a mash up of crooks pay for pics chicks with dicks and scammers do more research ... one of my favorite sites is liveescortreview ( just type it in google it will come up the first choice. Click on the chick and you can pretty much see where she has been all her photos and numbers associated with her some are fake some are real but you get a good idea of who she is.

Thanks for the compliment blackbird heck sometimes I still think I’m new to this finding a new one to enjoy ... hell I need to do a review or 2 sometime soon it’s been a while

Good luck out there and watch your 6 !!
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... hell I need to do a review or 2 sometime soon it’s been a while Originally Posted by Gottahavemore
It's never too late.
Timing is everything. Originally Posted by Jardinier
This is very true.

Sometimes, if you wait too long, you’ll miss out of an opportunity.

But, if you’re not ready, play it safe.

Once you’ve done your research and feel comfortable, make your initial contact.

When you make contact, be decisive and not wishy-washy.

If you feel something is off, then you can cancel or stall. However, you’ll lose credibility in the eyes of the provider, and you may not have another opportunity for an appointment.

Be very mindful of contacting too many providers at once. The case in point is when hobbyists try to secure a backup plan.

A lot of girls have slow comms. Unfortunately, that’s the norm. There aren’t a lot of good providers here, and a multitude of guys are throwing money at them.

Once you’ve given up on one and start talking to another, then the first girl will contact you.

I’ve experienced it. Now, you’ll have to make a decision. Choose wisely.

But, whatever you do, don’t regret it.

Always look for something better if things don’t work out.
Blackbird thanks for taking the time to write your guide. The part about the bed coming apart in England had me LOL.
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Blackbird thanks for taking the time to write your guide. The part about the bed coming apart in England had me LOL. Originally Posted by m4a1sof
A knock on the old noggin gives the little head anxieties.

I like your handle m4a1, personally prefer an M24A3 though. I’m a longer distance kind of guy.
Blackbird thanks for taking the time to write your guide. The part about the bed coming apart in England had me LOL. Originally Posted by m4a1sof
The ex and I were on vacation one time in Siesta Key. She was riding me CG and getting close to an orgasm. The bed broke and started to roll like the Titanic. She grabbed on to the corner of the mattress and rode it out to the finish. Had to give her kudos for that one.
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The ex and I were on vacation one time in Siesta Key. She was riding me CG and getting close to an orgasm. The bed broke and started to roll like the Titanic. She grabbed on to the corner of the mattress and rode it out to the finish. Had to give her kudos for that one. Originally Posted by duraman
If the bed didn't break because she was overweight, I'd have given her kudos too, for finishing. Any woman who can break a bed riding deserves an 7.5+ in my scoring system. Overweight enough to break the bed while riding? Take away -4.
No, it was 7.5+. If she was overweight, she wouldn't be in CG. Lol
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Bro I don’t even know how to begin my response. You sir are a legend.

If we can just get some of these ladies to respond when called upon.
Blackbird thanks for taking the time to write your guide. The part about the bed coming apart in England had me LOL. Originally Posted by m4a1sof
Bro I don’t even know how to begin my response. You sir are a legend.

If we can just get some of these ladies to respond when called upon. Originally Posted by Shooterr12
I’m glad you gentleman enjoyed the guide. I’ll probably add another section on how to tell if an add is fake.

I’m thinking to combine all the sections together. I’ll edit and correct my guide on its grammar, structure, flow, clarity, etc and try to make it better.

If anyone (newbie/veteran) sees anything I missed or need to elaborate on, please let me know.
ECCIE vs Mobile ECCIE

I use them ECCIE and Mobile ECCIE as they complement each other.

But, they each have their pros and cons, which I'll cover.

ECCIE:

Pros:

• Able to see a provider's image gallery.

I do not want to show bias, so I chose a random provider for the following example.

https://www.eccie.net/member.php?u=4...ab=photos_mine

https://m.eccie.net/member.php?u=494267

You'll notice you won't be able to view a photo gallery with Mobile ECCIE.

• Able to submit an encounter report.

Go to Encounter Reports - Panhandle and click New Encounter Report

• More power search features.

Cons:

• Hard to use on a mobile device.

Mobile ECCIE:

Pros:

• A streamlined version that appears better on mobile devices.

Cons:

• Unable to post a review unless you use a template.
• Less powerful search features.


How to do a search

I'll give two examples of how to search.

1. Let's say you want to search providers in Milton, Florida.

A. First go to Encounter Reports - Panhandle.

B. Click where it says Search this Forum > Type Milton > try Show Posts and Show Threads > Click Go

C. These are the results I got from my query. https://www.eccie.net/search.php?searchid=5956388

2. Go to https://www.eccie.net/search.php

A. In the Search for Forum/s box, choose Panhandle > then Click the checkbox for Also search in Subforums

B. Type Milton, Florida in the Search by Keyword box. Choose between Search Entire Posts or Search Threads Only > Click Search Now

C. These are the results I got from my query. https://www.eccie.net/search.php?searchid=5956464

How to Switch Views from ECCIE to Mobile ECCIE

Let's say you pulled up https://www.eccie.net/search.php?searchid=5956464 on your mobile device, and you say this is hard to read.

Replace www. with m. in the address bar of your browser.

https://m.eccie.net/search.php?searchid=5956464
The Police

I don't think a newbie should Take One For The Team.

Understand how the hobby works before taking chances.

- How can I tell if I'm talking to a vice cop?
- How do I know if I'm being set up for a sting?


This topic is beyond the scope of this guide.

All I can say is the police can make a thousand mistakes. You can only make one.

- What you will lose if you're arrested?

There are many fallacies when it comes to what a cop can or can't do to make an arrest.

Police officers and lawyers have been arrested in prostitution stings. They understand the law and police operations at a much higher level than we do.

My advice is to adopt a safety-first mentality and stick with vetted, proven providers.

Telling if an ad is fake

Here are some tell-tale signs that an ad is fake.

- Photos (Playboy model type) or Prices ($40/HR)are too good to be true.
- Wants a deposit upfront.
- Lists an obscure location like - Downtown, Uptown, Your Place, My Place, etc.
- Poor use of the English language. - could be a foreign scammer from Nigeria or Russia.
- Lists an email address instead of a phone number
- Will accept online payments. Alipay, Amex, Cash, CashApp, Crypto Currency, PayPal, Venmo, Visa/MC, WeChat
- Lists weight in kilograms instead of pounds


Things that you can do:

- Phone number search
- Reverse image lookup - Paste an image URL to the following.

https://tineye.com
https://images.google.com
https://yandex.com/images/

- Check for any mention of profile ids/reviews. (i.e., P411, ECCIE, TER)
- Look for mention of a social media presence. (Instagram, Onlyfans, Switter, Twitter)
- Look for a website. (i.e., escortbook.com)
- Cross-reference phone number on escortindex.com to verify all dates/locations the number has been used.
- Use common sense and trust your spidey-sense.


If in doubt, Go to Panhandle > Coed Discussions and then click on New Thread