Just a Suggestion

Validation of racism is a slippery slop, I would think thats all the forum would bring. Not a big deal to hear no and move on.

How about seperate forum for the BBBJ girls and the CBJ girls if we are going to the extreme. I personally think the ad section should have a form or template that the girls have to fill out when placing an ad. It should have checkboxes of things they do and don't do. When they properly fill out the form they can add all that other gibberish they put in their ads.

The information from the checkboxes in the form should automatically be posted in private tags so its not visible to the public. Similar to the way our reviews are done with the ROS. The form should have fields for CBJ and BBBJ and all sorts of other activities. There could be a box for different races they see and don't see. Could be a box for pricing and incall/outcall.. shit like that.

A spearate ad forum isnt "validation" of anything IMHO, it's only posting ads. So of us have time restraints and work obligations and such ..... We dont have time to play the guess what race I am game or spend all day searching ads and doing research. I am just trying to streamline the business model thats all and save me some time, laziness is the brainchild of innovation.

This is sort of like the weekend ad forum, why is there one ? Someone felt a need for one .....

Men, (at least older men), have a saying "it's all pink on the inside".

What would be a comparable description that the Ladies would use for men.

That is, besides "green".

II-2, I sympathize with your delima, but I have no answer for it.

Validation of racism is a slippery slop, I would think thats all the forum would bring. Not a big deal to hear no and move on. Originally Posted by trey

Whether the intent would be as such or not..... One way or another there would be that feeling about it....... or at least it would be easily used in the back pocket of some......

So of us have time restraints and work obligations and such ..... We dont have time to play the guess what race I am game or spend all day searching ads and doing research. I am just trying to streamline the business model thats all and save me some time, laziness is the brainchild of innovation.

This is sort of like the weekend ad forum, why is there one ? Someone felt a need for one ..... Originally Posted by internet_inventor2

The slippery slope of it lies within other "restraints"..... where do you draw the line at subcatagories?

For Example, if the "NBA Policy Provider Ads" forum WERE to be displayed.... What's to keep members from wanting the following:

How about seperate forum for the BBBJ girls and the CBJ girls if we are going to the extreme. I personally think the ad section should have a form or template that the girls have to fill out when placing an ad. It should have checkboxes of things they do and don't do. When they properly fill out the form they can add all that other gibberish they put in their ads.

The information from the checkboxes in the form should automatically be posted in private tags so its not visible to the public. Similar to the way our reviews are done with the ROS. The form should have fields for CBJ and BBBJ and all sorts of other activities. There could be a box for different races they see and don't see. Could be a box for pricing and incall/outcall.. shit like that. Originally Posted by Jack Flash

And from there, how about a BBW Ad forum..... then a PSE only Ad forum..... Again.... where do you draw the line?

The best thing I can say is to remember, or note, who is NBA.... Most of the ladies are very straight forward about listing that in their ads..... and then just skim over them.....


JaD

Why not just start a thread in the men's lounge listing ladies that others know have an NBA policy.

Just ask the provider you are seeking, does she see black men. Though some guys ask this to be an asshole, but it would not hurt to ask and get the formalities out the way. That way you know she is going to open the door.

And pardon my dumb ass question, is she researching you?, that way she can ask what your race is. Im just not understanding why your appts flake on you, sounds like they are not doing their homework.

Business must be booming in Houston, if ladies are not even opening the door when the client shows up. Damn, must be raining money down there.

A forum for all NBA gals, really???? Oh well.

I already know which direction many of you will take this thread and if it goes that route, well all know what will happen, .....

Anyways, in an effort to save (myself) time and money, is it possible to have another Provider Ads section just for NBA providers. First of all it does not bother me if you/they have an NBA policy, that is not the point of the request, it is a free country.

I just get tired of making an appointment or trying too make and getting asked questions like "what is your race" (I am 3 of them to be exact, lol) or getting there and all of a sudden no one is there/answers. It just waste time/effort. I have asked several providers as to why they just dont put it in their ads and they say, "I will get hassled" and "I dont want to hurt anyone's feelings", my favorite " I dont want people to think I am racist". I really could give two shits as to the reason, I am just pissed when my time (time = money) is wasted. If they had their own forum, they could post ads in peace and I would save myself some hassle.

This new forum can be called whatever you want it, the white room, blackout room, I really dont care. Take for instance 90% of these providers from Dallas/out of town recently, hot young nice and NBA, thats fine. I hate reading through an ad seeing all the pics and then there it is NBA, lol. It would be easier if they just had their own place for ads.

Well back to work, I will pull out my and sing to myself now. I think it is time to gather my flock and travel down those roads less taken... Originally Posted by internet_inventor2

Brutal, but funny.

We can name the forum "IBDDBDEDADWTSAOYGEA"...

"I've Been Dicked Down By DED And Don't Want To See Any Of You Guys Ever Again" Originally Posted by Wakeuр

Seriously??? validation of racism. So any provider who post in that section would be a racist. Damn!!! I don't know my friend. I don't know about that.

Validation of racism is a slippery slop, I would think thats all the forum would bring. Not a big deal to hear no and move on. Originally Posted by trey

I know Pyro and II2 personally. If I was a provider I wouldn't see either of them Originally Posted by tbone2u

Sir!
I will wear that endorsement...or rather lack of an endorsement as a badge of honor. Always good to hear from you, even if its to be a handy target for mud-slinging. Man I got too much time on my hands lately.

Best regards,

pyro

JAD, I get your point of it getting out of hand although I dont agree with comparing it to CBJ or BBBJ and/or BBW, those are different IMHO. Us (Fucktards) are the customers, I just want to know where I am allowed to shop thats all. I do see how it could get out of hand, like I said, I was just trying to make it more user friendly for ME.

Lisa - With all due respect, I dont think you got the point of my suggestion.

I get your point as a fellow of color. But I kinda just figure out who the NBA chicks are and chunk them the dueces. Don't even bother looking at their ads. It's not that hard to figure out with research just like bbw's, non-bbbj's, and BP ads. Hell if they have to advertise separately they're NBA, then we should advertise which of us are assholes **raises hand**

Mm.

I get your point as a fellow of color. But I kinda just figure out who the NBA chicks are and chunk them the dueces. Don't even bother looking at their ads. It's not that hard to figure out with research just like bbw's, non-bbbj's, and BP ads. Hell if they have to advertise separately they're NBA, then we should advertise which of us are assholes **raises hand** Originally Posted by The G.O.A.T

Cool everyone has their, it is how I normally deal with the issue. As stated, this was about making it easier for me, oops I mean others. Well, time for me to put on my white armor and climb on my white horse and ride into the SUNSET Anyone need a hero ?

Btw a separate BBW thread would use too much bandwidth anyways, ijs. (and down goes Fraser)

Could someone please close the thread behind me.

I like it......


Less Bitches bumping my shit down..... Originally Posted by BDS

WORD

Why not just start a thread in the men's lounge listing ladies that others know have an NBA policy. Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

I started one on ASPD...that thing was at least 10 pages long

Could someone please close the thread behind me. Originally Posted by internet_inventor2