Mature Problems

beachcomber789's Avatar
My wife had the surgery after menopause and it was like a light being turned off! Her idea of sex life is 10-15 minutes on a Saturday or Sunday morningI tried the on-line dating but those gals get a lot emails and I don't have time for the games. I started hobbying because I need more! Plain and simple...hell she won't even throw in a HJ every now and then.
So ladies thank you for the fun!
pyramider's Avatar
Does your wife approve of you playing in the hobby?
Level of desire may be different. Desire to "play" remains, just perhaps incorporating other types of play that are new and refreshing.
According to the commercials..all men over 40 is in need of ED meds, the pussy has dried up an blown away for the women, and everyone is secretly wearing diapers.

I've known women & men who have not discover their sexuality until much later in life. Attitude towards sex, self image, and your relationship with your partner play a very big factor. I think menopause is often used as an excuse to avoid intimacy, but it's not the cause.
Purrrsia's Avatar
On point!