Does the Hobby Save Marriages?

Sex is NOT the only component to a marriage. And these gentlemen do love their SO's. However they desire intimacy still, while the other partner does not. This is why they visit women like myself. No worries from me that I would ever try to sabatoge their marital life, but at the same time they get to visit a lady who is hot, friendly and gives them that intimacy they desire. Friendship with boundaries intact.

So do I think that this venue saves marriages? Hell yes. Always see a professional woman.The risk of causing marital distress is not near as likely to happen to you then if you were to just go and have an affair with a civilian woman. Originally Posted by Jez UaBriain

+1 on this Jez!!

Saving a marraige is what the trick says to himself to justify cheating on his wife...

I was going to reply, but Al Bundy beaet me to it. I too am married to an extremely beautiful woman. My wife actually modeled as short as 7 years ago. Today she is just not as sexual as she used to be. Don't get me wrong, anytime I want sex, she'll bend over the bed and let me bang her doggy style or however I want... there is little emotion and we fight alot.

I love my kids and don't want to leave. Truth be told, I think a lot of women don't get it. Just be the freak in the bedroom and discover yourself sexually. This happens before sex, you are supposed to connect mentally. We had a connection, then had kids and she turned to sweet polly purebread.

I don't think hobbying saves my marriage, it just makes is bearable.

Definitely "saved" mine. My wife is extremely gorgeous, no bullshit. Way out of my league. I have a great family, wonderful young children. But because of things earlier in her life, sex with my wife was infrequent, now non-existent. Used to be once a month, then every 2 months, now once a year if I'm "lucky". She definitely doesn't know I hobby. I WISH I could be faithful to her, but damn, after a while I can't take it anymore.

I have 3 options as I see it: 1). Jerking off constantly, 2.) divorce, or 3.) cheat.

1.) Just jerking off gets really old, really fast.
2.) Divorce isn't the answer because of rarely seeing my kids, child support X3, and I actually do love my wife.
3.) Cheating. The option I chose. A girl on the side sucks because of huge chance of getting caught and possible emotional ties. Hobbying is the way to go. Meet some wonderful ladies on here and keep the family intact. Can't hobby as much as I'd like because of wife seeing money coming in and out. But I get to hobby occasionally and stay with my wife. Originally Posted by albundy

I'm not saying anything original here but children and money keep bad marriages together; not call girls or side pieces. The extracurricular activity is just a coping mechanism.

When I say children and money keep marriages together I don't mean it in a negative way. In the case of children, it is true love (for them) and sacrifice. In the case of money (cost of not being married to her) it is simply practical.

Saving a marraige is what the trick says to himself to justify cheating on his wife... Originally Posted by Wakeup

I was going to reply, but Al Bundy beaet me to it. I too am married to an extremely beautiful woman. My wife actually modeled as short as 7 years ago. Today she is just not as sexual as she used to be. Don't get me wrong, anytime I want sex, she'll bend over the bed and let me bang her doggy style or however I want... there is little emotion and we fight alot.

I love my kids and don't want to leave. Truth be told, I think a lot of women don't get it. Just be the freak in the bedroom and discover yourself sexually. This happens before sex, you are supposed to connect mentally. We had a connection, then had kids and she turned to sweet polly purebread.

I don't think hobbying saves my marriage, it just makes is bearable. Originally Posted by nastymand

I'm not saying anything original here but children and money keep bad marriages together; not call girls or side pieces. The extracurricular activity is just a coping mechanism.

When I say children and money keep marriages together I don't mean it in a negative way. In the case of children, it is true love (for them) and sacrifice. In the case of money (cost of not being married to her) it is simply practical. Originally Posted by atlcomedy

I had 500 words written but you guys made the point as clear as it can be, thanks.
Wakeup;
Life rule#1. If thoust be truly free, do share without imposing.
Not a jab bro, just sharing.

hmmmmmmm surprisingly a lot of providers have a majority of their clients who are married.It's cheating 100% imo but I guess it's a case by case basis.

Saving a marraige is what the trick says to himself to justify cheating on his wife... Originally Posted by Wakeup

I am surprised it took you so long to toss in your one size fits everyone perspective.

I don't think hobbying saves my marriage, it just makes is bearable. Originally Posted by nastymand

It seems to me that because you don't agree with the concept of cheating saving a marriage in principle you're trying to Bill Clinton everyone ("what is the definition of is"). The simple fact of the matter is by literal definition making something bearable is synonymous with saving it.

The only way I see that the hobby helps marriage is when the wife no longer wants to or physically can't have sex and you tell your wife and she agrees with it. For the rest of you guys that are not telling your wife about your SB, GF, provider,etc is it because she'd divorce your ass and take half. Which in turn means you will no longer have the $$$ for your SB, GF, provider, etc. Ever heard of the saying, "It's cheaper to keep her!"

I have a question, What if it was you that couldn't get it up? Would it be OK with you if your wife got herself a hot, young stud to service her? Would that help save your marriage?

Speaking for me and my loving bride of 23 years, we hobby together. Our marriage never needed saving so the hobby only enhanced our marriage. Especially since my wife informed me that she is more into chicks and only wants my dick.

I would like to thank the follwing providers for enhancing our marraige - SAangel27, Hazel956, Angeliqe foxx, LovelyLuna, Tia XXX, Majestycctx, MistyCC, and many South Texas UTR's.

I have been married for 23 years I'll never forget the words of advice my father gave me when I told him about my plans to get married. Remember my father was the ultimate monger, he was a monger before there were mongers with his 4 marriages and divorces and his numerous girlfriends. He told me that at the beginning of your marriage you won't be watching training videos (porn) together but you will want to do those things in the videos so make sure you marry a girl that will eventually be willing to participate. You need her to be more then just the mother of your children or you'll be going down my road of not spending quality time with your mate, heartbreak and costly divorces.

The only way I see that the hobby helps marriage is when the wife no longer wants to or physically can't have sex and you tell your wife and she agrees with it. For the rest of you guys that are not telling your wife about your SB, GF, provider,etc is it because she'd divorce your ass and take half. Which in turn means you will no longer have the $$$ for your SB, GF, provider, etc. Ever heard of the saying, "It's cheaper to keep her!"

I have a question, What if it was you that couldn't get it up? Would it be OK with you if your wife got herself a hot, young stud to service her? Would that help save your marriage?

Speaking for me and my loving bride of 23 years, we hobby together. Our marriage never needed saving so the hobby only enhanced our marriage. Especially since my wife informed me that she is more into chicks and only wants my dick.

I would like to thank the follwing providers for enhancing our marraige - SAangel27, Hazel956, Angeliqe foxx, LovelyLuna, Tia XXX, Majestycctx, MistyCC, and many South Texas UTR's.

I have been married for 23 years I'll never forget the words of advice my father gave me when I told him about my plans to get married. Remember my father was the ultimate monger, he was a monger before there were mongers with his 4 marriages and divorces and his numerous girlfriends. He told me that at the beginning of your marriage you won't be watching training videos (porn) together but you will want to do those things in the videos so make sure you marry a girl that will eventually be willing to participate. You need her to be more then just the mother of your children or you'll be going down my road of not spending quality time with your mate, heartbreak and costly divorces. Originally Posted by bistraight69

We can't all be the same? Thanks for sharing.

Saving a marraige is what the trick says to himself to justify cheating on his wife... Originally Posted by Wakeup

Exactly. A successful relationship is based on mutual respect and trust. That's all I have to say. Friendship counts for a lot and it is also based on trust and mutual respect.

By the way, I always get philosphical when I drink

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