Provider's feelings on younger hobbyist


from what i've heard about you no complaints in your department lol
Originally Posted by Max Rax

Well, nothing like getting it first hand. Soon as I stock up on my wheaties, I'll be right over........lol
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Hoenstly, this shit can get you very jaded. You will become very shallow and will lose patience for women the longer you do this and every time you get in a relationship , you think of many crazy stuff you have done with providers before so either your expectation gets raised or your concentration goes to shit.
May be you can shake the cobwebs and get some confidence for your private life but be careful how long or how deep you get in this game for. Originally Posted by Htowner

This is some wise and sage advice from Htowner. Be careful and not get so wrapped up in this thing at a young age. Wait until your old, jaded and bitter like the rest of us....just kidding. Sounds like you already made up your mind, so have fun and be careful. But don't neglect the nice civilian girls out there.
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I am a noob to the hobby and am anxious to go on my first hobby expedition! The only issue I am foreseeing is my age. I am a 20 year old male, and after looking at it from a provider's viewpoint I might get rejected. I can afford to be in the hobby world, and believe that my success at such a young age has forced me to mature very quickly. I am young, and just looking to have a good time and would like to know how providers feel about seeing younger gentlemen. I would also like to know what to do so that people will look past my age. I don't want to go to see a provider and be treated like I am paying so they can babysit me. I will be getting p411 verified, as I see this is a good start and almost must to hobby.

I am also sure many people will say wow why do you want to hobby at such a young age, and to be honest because I can and feel that each time will be a new adventure. Originally Posted by MonkeysUncle
There are some providers that won't see you because of your age. Don't sweat it! If you're polite & straightforward, there is a segment of the provider population that will simply eat you up with a spoon.... Enjoy it!!!

There are many that will wonder why you didn't wait until you were older...much more jaded & fucked up...to go this route. Don't sweat that, either... never apologize for being of above-average intelligence.

Oh yeah....welcome!!!
I dont see the issue. I dont ask the age of any of my clients. As long as you are polite and I get a good vibe from you and you pass screening then its all good. Its just more surprising when we get a younger hobbyist. Nothing wrong with it tho and I personally dont discriminate.
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And I thought I was young! Good to see a fellow young hobbyist!
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I dont see the issue. I dont ask the age of any of my clients. As long as you are polite and I get a good vibe from you and you pass screening then its all good. Its just more surprising when we get a younger hobbyist. Nothing wrong with it tho and I personally dont discriminate. Originally Posted by stargirl3355
Awesome! I am looking for providers like this simply because I am discriminated against in my general setting because of my age and income.

Thanks for all the input everyone! I am excited to get started in a few weeks after some out of state business! I will definitely contact you stargirl!
The problem I see with getting into the hobby at such an early age is the effect it will have on your civilian relationships in the future. Providers are very experienced in the bedroom, and they are professionals at pleasing the men that choose to spend time with them. The more providers you see, the higher your expectations are going to become in regards to bedroom skills. When you finally meet that special civilian lady, you will only be disappointed because your expectations were already set too high to begin with. Keep that in mind before you decide to explore this world. On the other hand, if you no interest in relationships at all, feel free to go crazy as the hobby will give you some of the best experiences of your life.
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  • 05-17-2010, 06:50 AM
The problem I see with getting into the hobby at such an early age is the effect it will have on your civilian relationships in the future. Providers are very experienced in the bedroom, and they are professionals at pleasing the men that choose to spend time with them. The more providers you see, the higher your expectations are going to become in regards to bedroom skills. When you finally meet that special civilian lady, you will only be disappointed because your expectations were already set too high to begin with. Keep that in mind before you decide to explore this world. On the other hand, if you no interest in relationships at all, feel free to go crazy as the hobby will give you some of the best experiences of your life. Originally Posted by The Nameless One

Sage advice. And oh, so very true.
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The problem I see with getting into the hobby at such an early age is the effect it will have on your civilian relationships in the future. Providers are very experienced in the bedroom, and they are professionals at pleasing the men that choose to spend time with them. The more providers you see, the higher your expectations are going to become in regards to bedroom skills. When you finally meet that special civilian lady, you will only be disappointed because your expectations were already set too high to begin with. Keep that in mind before you decide to explore this world. On the other hand, if you no interest in relationships at all, feel free to go crazy as the hobby will give you some of the best experiences of your life. Originally Posted by The Nameless One
+1 and a lot more.

My advice is that you can't take it back. Once you go down that road....it is hard to put the genie back in the bottle.

It WILL have an effect upon your expectations in the future.

The business of affection and the act of it in your own life can be quite addicting. Keep it in balance and your head right, otherwise you can become some of the f'd up provider's some of us "not so lucky" hobbyists have encountered.

That being said, being good in the sack is a hell of a personal asset. I always bring my A game to whomever I'm intimate with....provider or not. There are 2 people there (or 3 if your lucky) ...I get a HUGE kick out of satisfying my partner. That's why this industry is so MASSIVE.

BTW - Remembering myself 25 yrs ago at 20, the biggest worry a provider should have is your staying power x-viagra. I could go on and on and on and on....well, I still can..kindof.
Well, nothing like getting it first hand. Soon as I stock up on my wheaties, I'll be right over........lol Originally Posted by SOULMANIKE
With Max, a bottle of 5 Hour Energy may help, also.
Awesome! I am looking for providers like this simply because I am discriminated against in my general setting because of my age and income.

Thanks for all the input everyone! I am excited to get started in a few weeks after some out of state business! I will definitely contact you stargirl! Originally Posted by MonkeysUncle
So MU looks like your questions have been answered and you are on your way. Now brush up on how to write a proper review here

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=20014

Now just because you are young....doesn't mean you won't get blasted if you don't write a proper review.......So if that happens don't take it personal....Just get better.....Just a heads up......lol


Enjoy
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.... I am discriminated against in my general setting because of my age and income.
Originally Posted by MonkeysUncle
hmmm... ever try renting a car at the airport...
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So MU looks like your questions have been answered and you are on your way. Now brush up on how to write a proper review here

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=20014

Now just because you are young....doesn't mean you won't get blasted if you don't write a proper review.......So if that happens don't take it personal....Just get better.....Just a heads up......lol


Enjoy Originally Posted by SOULMANIKE
Yes, I have seen some harsh replies lol. I will definitely make my first review epic! Thanks for the heads up

hmmm... ever try renting a car at the airport... Originally Posted by ThatManFromTexas
Yeah, recently picked up something more inconspicuous to drive in lol.
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And I thought I was young! Good to see a fellow young hobbyist! Originally Posted by TheStig
Co-sign!
I think that the biggest reason for the over 30-35 requirement is because of the maturity level of the hobbyist, not to cater to any one group. However, if you call, (and arrive) legit, without any games or unneccessary drama, and respect YOURSELF first and foremost, I don't see why anyone would have a problem seeing you..

Just don't be an added dick to the others that may have contributed as to why some providers are so jaded, and money grubbing, and well, you get the idea. And first and foremost, HAVE FUN!!