Young and hobbying.

I still remember in the early 60's where I would work on a girl all night at the Vegas Club on Oak Lawn, feed her my whiskey, then take to either Lucas B & B or Anderson's resturant and feed her ass breakfast, then get her to her apartment or mine and not get any pussy... Maybe a little lay there, touchy-feely crap...

Got to hanging out with some of Jack Ruby's strippers who moved into my apartment complex and found out how absolutely wonderful this hobby life is.... Fast forward to 2010.. Still going strong.

Bottom line, You'll pay one way or the other...50 years later, I'll still take a pretty hobby lady.... You'll learn...

Some men want to take the edge off their dating lives~ it keeps them from being intimate with a civilian just because they're horny (and then being stuck with an "insta girlfriend" if it's a girl they don't really like; or having rushed a relationship with a possible future wife if it's a girl they do really like.)

Yes, I've been told this by men. It allows them to date the way they want. One told me he only sees providers when he's between girlfriends. Originally Posted by HoneyRose

From There's Something About Mary

Dom: You choke the chicken before any big date, don't you? Tell me you spank the monkey before any big date. Oh my God, he doesn't flog the dolphin before a big date. Are you crazy? That's like going out there with a loaded gun! Of course that's why you're nervous. Oh my dear friend, please sit, please. Look, um, after you've had sex with a girl, and you're lying in bed with her, are you nervous? No, you're not, why?

Ted: Cause I'm tired...

Dom: Wrong! It's 'cause you ain't got the baby batter on the brain anymore! Jesus, that stuff will fuck you're head up! Look, the most honest moment in a man's life are the few minutes after he's blown his load - now that is a medical fact. And the reason for it is that you're no longer trying to get laid, you're actually... you're thinking like a girl, and girls love that.

So Mr.NoC thinks only the old and ugly guys hobby..? LMFAO. I'm neither but I still hobby. Why? Because I have absolutely no interest in spending time with a girl apart from the BCD time. Saying nice things, getting presents, carrying shopping bags, paying for dinner, putting up with all the whining, complaining etc etc.. just in the hope of getting some pussy..? Come on you must be kidding..
I just pay for pussy when I need one and spend the rest of my time doing things I like..

I attract the 30 something single mom's, and crazy ladies.. I'm not sure what it is. And 25 year old women are mostly neurotic, at least in my city.

I'm noticing something about the breed of women some of you and I are meeting. Presents? Trips? Putting up with whining? Relationships? .. Only if you want that woman to know you're a pussy (..sorry I meant her boyfriend). Hell, do yall carry their purse also? I'm sorry but that too much emotional touchy stuff to give to a woman you're not married to. I'm not saying go and dog a woman, but if a "top of the line" escort cost what $250 - $400 for a hour (do some of yall tip also?) .. then what's talking to a woman, getting her a drink and coming at her with what you really want. What's one hour of pussy really worth .. when I can get a hookup for less? I don't have to do a club to get a woman .. there's ladies everywhere. Hell, I met this one woman at WalMart buying men adult diapers for her grandfather. She was cute little black thing and I steped up and got in good with her. It only took a week before we both got a nut .. nothing more. There are ladies out there who want it just like men want it .. I'm just saying.

I really don't want to come off as judgmental .. I honestly wanted to know why. Thanks for your replies. God bless.

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I am confused.

If you are not wanting to P4P, then why are you here? And why ask the question?

PPE Originally Posted by PurplePussyEater

I'm here just for the entertainment and conversation really .. nothing more. You could say I'm just "people watching" sort of. The question just poped in my head while I was listening to this talk radio show.. the show is hosted by guy named Michael Baisden. He dedicated most of his show on topics about escorts early this week. There was this one caller who was a young guy like 22 .. he was just gabbing on about the ease of using escorts. .. I just heard that and thought I'd ask the young dudes here .. why so young? Just curious.

Mr. No Confidence,
I see SEVERAL men that are in their 20's. I also see several men in their 30's 40's 50's.....I don't think age is the issue here. I think it is a level of maturity that each one gets about the world of hobbying. Sure you can meet a hot woman buying diapers for her "grandfather" in WalMart, but honestly....it probably takes you 10 visits to Walmart before you find the one woman in the adult incontinence section that doesn't want to be your girlfriend and expect things you are not willing to give.

In my experience (and yes, I have been around a bit) men have different reasons for meeting with a provider......just because it doesn't follow your model of "hooking up" or "getting a nut" doesn't mean it doesn't provide the service(s) they are looking for.
That is what makes this hobby world so much damn fun!

PS. please don't follow up your post with God Bless.....it creeps me out when "pussy", "nut" "diapers", "hook-up" and "Walmart" are all used in the same post.
in the words of SP....."Happy Hunting"