Prix Fixe or A la carte?

Holly is def. ATF material.

The pros are that you find someone who meets most of, if not all of your needs/wants in a provider. Basically, you find someone that you have chemistry with. Someone that makes a hobbyist rock hard just at the thought of that provider.

The cons are that the provider can't do this forever. They will leave the biz, retire, move out of town, get married, whatever the case may be.

I've had ATF's but I also like trying out new ladies. As far as my personal life is concerned, as a black man I had always dated black women. I got into the hobby so that I could experience different races, types of women. So, while I do enjoy someone I can go to that I've developed chemistry with I also enjoy meeting new people.

I used to love to see the same girl all the time but I have found that the more you see a girl the less fun it can get. The fist time is great hot and sexy but you lose that the second time around and less, and less, each time there after, hence "Chaseing the Dragon". I am now trying wating longer to repeat with girls to see if I have better time like that, at least a month or two, maybe more. I used to repeat after a good time real fast like within a week or two, all the time. The first time is the best time no matter what, but when I want my guarantee of a solid time and dont want to deal with any bull I do try to repeat a with a good girl I have already seen. I think I repeat for about half of my sessions at least once.

The stamp collecting part only has comes in with the board for me I do like to up my review count. I like to keep it one review per provider unless I have something good/new to share, so that makes me want to see new girls as well. Its like achievement points on my xbox, or trophy's on my PlayStation. Like the scores on xbox and PlayStation, no one cares about yours but you, so not that big a deal made out of it. But it is also cool when you can say I have seen this girl, and that girl, and this one over here was great.

When I find someone extraordinary, I tend to go back for more. But it's also fun to meet someone new.

I have a rule not to see a provider twice..........I have on a rare ocassion broken that rule.

Once I find what I am looking for... I usually stop looking... until they retire or move out of town... happens a lot to me...

Okay had to ask.. most of my friends are repeat offenders lol..so I wondered does good service keep you coming back for more, or does it get redundant like having a sideline SO...

I used to love to see the same girl all the time but I have found that the more you see a girl the less fun it can get. The fist time is great hot and sexy but you lose that the second time around and less, and less, each time there after, hence "Chaseing the Dragon". I am now trying wating longer to repeat with girls to see if I have better time like that, at least a month or two, maybe more. I used to repeat after a good time real fast like within a week or two, all the time. The first time is the best time no matter what, but when I want my guarantee of a solid time and dont want to deal with any bull I do try to repeat a with a good girl I have already seen. I think I repeat for about half of my sessions at least once.

The stamp collecting part only has comes in with the board for me I do like to up my review count. I like to keep it one review per provider unless I have something good/new to share, so that makes me want to see new girls as well. Its like achievement points on my xbox, or trophy's on my PlayStation. Like the scores on xbox and PlayStation, no one cares about yours but you, so not that big a deal made out of it. But it is also cool when you can say I have seen this girl, and that girl, and this one over here was great. Originally Posted by trey

Im gonna dispute this Trey if the chemistry is there I think it can just get better and better! Actually thats part of the fun for me with my regular guys I love upping the ante and getting a little freakier,hotter every time. It gives both parties something to look forward to and spices it up a bit. Dont jump down my throat im just sayin,lol! My ATF knows what Im talking about,it got better the last time and it will keep on. If I was a guy and I had an ATF I'd keep trying to explore and broaden our boundaries and Id probably try a new flavor once or twice a month. So I can understand the collectors and the guys that stick to what they know. Good thread Daphne!

I had to hurry up and get here so I could be "under" Mila. LOL

I'mma go old school Mila...

Will you be my ATF? Circle: YES NO

LMAO

I do like to see someone regularly. Not really into getting more notches under my belt. I think it's good to vary some but I still think that if you find someone that meets your needs in a way that makes you want to keep coming back then who knows what they may have in store for you next time.

Wouldn't mind knowing if I am someone's ATF client though. Feel free to let me know ladies....lol

Im gonna dispute this Trey if the chemistry is there I think it can just get better and better! Actually thats part of the fun for me with my regular guys I love upping the ante and getting a little freakier,hotter every time. It gives both parties something to look forward to and spices it up a bit. Dont jump down my throat im just sayin,lol! My ATF knows what Im talking about,it got better the last time and it will keep on. If I was a guy and I had an ATF I'd keep trying to explore and broaden our boundaries and Id probably try a new flavor once or twice a month. So I can understand the collectors and the guys that stick to what they know. Good thread Daphne! Originally Posted by caramelqtee mila

I wont jump down your throat, put something else down there . Im just fucking with you, well sorta. Babe everyone feels different and you may have had a different experience then me. So I am with you babe if it gets better and better, man I love you for it.

It should.. like why go straight to the bed? why not counter, shower, pool? lol Perhaps a game of thumb war to see who gets to be on top.. I love spontaneity, everytime you see someone it should be as fresh as it was the first time.

It should.. like why go straight to the bed? why not counter, shower, pool? lol Perhaps a game of thumb war to see who gets to be on top.. I love spontaneity, everytime you see someone it should be as fresh as it was the first time. Originally Posted by luxury daphne

If it gets better with you daphne than I would say you are different than most.....i would say that familiarity breeds second-class performance and the opportunity for a provider to ask for things she should'nt ask for.

If it gets better with you daphne than I would say you are different than most.
I could only hope so.

....i would say that familiarity breeds second-class performance and the opportunity for a provider to ask for things she should'nt ask for. Originally Posted by oilfieldscum

wow.. now that's a good topic. And what would these things be?Not that I don't know the difference between inappropriate or not, just asking.

I have a very long list but here are a couple of quotes....not from the same individuals by the way

"Hey baby I am a little short on my rent could you help me out...I promise I'll make it up to you"

or

"I am getting my hair done and my daughter is hungry could you take her some money so she can order a pizza"