I definately would NOT. The reason is I would not want to support that lifestyle. I am iffy on the BF/SO scenario as well so I would have to really evaluate that before seeing her again if I found out........I would be thinking to myself: "Damn if you were my GF/SO I'd do whatever I had to just to make sure you didn't have to do this.".......I try to stay as civie minded as I can and try to practice chivalry,thoughtfulness,courte sy along with respect.
Originally Posted by B.Wayne
I think in a since I totally read and understand where you are coming from. From both the pimp and bf/so perspective. But as a client.........in a way.....the illusion of the type of GFE experience she offers is tainted in a sense in your eyes.
So in some respect you and the pimp are the same. You want false mental temporary ownership of her (the provider) in real life so that you can feel better about the exchange.........or not have double negativity with your own infedelity in your own personal life.
Me personally a boyfriend or significant other isn't an issue for me, a pimp would be for many reason. I think when we try to mentally regulate ladies like that into lieing and saying they don't have s.o.'s they can't really relax and be themselves which guys sometimes try to implement (dinner dates, pillowtalk, dirty talk with your name maybe, etc).....which feeds more into the act........and moreso business. Doesn't seem fair for those ladies, but I understand your paying for the illusion.
To me really it makes no difference. When I'm booking a multi hour yes I do opt for the physical benefits......but I also look for small pieces of her likes and realism if I consider her an ATF. If she told me she was happily married or in a good relationship it wouldn't matter too much to me. I treat ladies with respect in the hobby but these are not the civie worlld to me.......this is fantasy.
Why hide it? Why lie about it, if it isn't that big of a deal to some?
Originally Posted by B.Wayne
I think some providers hide it because its personal just like our lovelife is......but I think also if ladies posted their relationship and marital status in their "about me" page more guys will be turned off than the ones like me who don't even care remotely.