I had a provider pick me up while having work done on my car and the extended-stay motel right next door.
I could have walk to her incall in 10 min's.
Those were the good old days.
I'm still amazed at the number of guys who need "permission" to even get out of the house.Nah, some of us just take our pants and go home...hee hee hee
Oh I'm sorry, need to give a "reason" lol
Just goes to show ya which sex really wears the pants in the family.
Ok, ok....I'm being sarcastic tonight. It's late and I have nothing better to do. (but you know I'm right lol) Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihan
I'm still amazed at the number of guys who need "permission" to even get out of the house.Don't be. A lot of jobs by their nature involve a lot of time away from an office. But a lot don't. For those of us who work in such jobs, we don't meet clients or prospects, we don't drive long distances, and we don't work in the field. Instead, the routine is the same every day -- get up, go to work, go home, eat dinner, watch TV, along with whatever activities outside school coursework the kids are involved in. A subset of us don't play golf and don't have friends who could be our beards.
Oh I'm sorry, need to give a "reason" lol Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihan
I'm still amazed at the number of guys who need "permission" to even get out of the house.maybe, but remember, it's women who have the power/control over sex and men who have to promise, pledge, grovel, beg, pay, barter, share, kiss ass, lie, sweet talk, submit, etc. to get it.
Oh I'm sorry, need to give a "reason" lol
Just goes to show ya which sex really wears the pants in the family.
Ok, ok....I'm being sarcastic tonight. It's late and I have nothing better to do. (but you know I'm right lol) Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihan
Don't be. A lot of jobs by their nature involve a lot of time away from an office. But a lot don't. For those of us who work in such jobs, we don't meet clients or prospects, we don't drive long distances, and we don't work in the field. Instead, the routine is the same every day -- get up, go to work, go home, eat dinner, watch TV, along with whatever activities outside school coursework the kids are involved in. A subset of us don't play golf and don't have friends who could be our beards.I understand the "routine" thing, but are the choke chains so tight at home a guy can't say "I'm going to get a beer and watch the game with some co-workers" or something? I dunno....I've just never been one of those "where ya going, where ya been" kinda of ladies. If my dude wants to go out for awhile then so be it. Gives me time to relax in the tub or whatever without him being all up under me. But hey, that's just me. I don't understand why a woman bugs out about her man wanting to go somewhere. If he's gonna cheat, he will find a way anyway. He doesn't need her "ok" to get out the house to do. *shrug*
Most of us didn't have the foresight when the marriage began to know that every now and then we'd need to have some unaccounted-for time, so we didn't lay the groundwork by just getting up, walking out the door, and not saying where we were going or when we'd be back. On top of that, it's just common courtesy to tell your spouse. Now, it's too late to change the habits.
Sometimes I wish I'd taken up golf. Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot
the whole "going out" is the cover story for cheating.wrt 1st bolded sentence: there are a gazillion reasons why a woman wouldnt want her man to go out. envy, jealousy, insecurity, control issues, safety, the list goes on and on. they may not be sensible or reasonable, but if the woman feels/believes/thinks it, it is.
what i'm saying is i don't understand why so many women don't like their men to go out, or why so many men have problems getting out of the house for an appt because they can't "account for the extra time they are gone."
doesn't make sense to me that a man can't get away for 2 or 3 hours w/o the SO questioning his every move. grow some balls, pull your big boy pants up and say "i'm going to the sports bar to watch the game and have a beer with the guys" or poker night or whatever.
a man shouldn't have to give a reason he's going anywhere. he should be able to say "i'm going out for awhile. need anything while i'm gone?" but some of ya'll are just pussy whipped lol Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihan
Well, for starters, if you haven't gone out with the boys before, if it's something that comes at her out of deep left field, that in and of itself is enough to raise suspicion. Originally Posted by Sir LancehernotOk, now THAT makes sense. I guess I just presume most men have always had active social lives and it shouldn't be an issue lol
meg,Last time I checked, yes, I am a woman-thank you very much. So whatever...
i didnt want to say it last post, but i will now.
i'm going to assume that you are a woman. and that you think differently than most men. and for that matter, than most woman. and, due to your occupation, that you are way different than most women.
so, while what you say is theoretically feasible, it is theoretical until you've actually been a man married to a woman or living w/ a woman for some time.
Originally Posted by pmdelites