Personally I would maybe use the word ideal instead of perfect. It's sort of like beauty ; all in the eyes of the beholder. However, even if you're paying I think the perfect lover should always start with yourself as you have to be perfect in order to get perfection. If you both bring what the other person desires to the table then perhaps you can call it a "perfect" experience.I think you mean, "Beauty is in the eye of the Beer Holder".
Anything short of this "perfection" still has the potential to be just a really good time. Just my two cents. Originally Posted by Zanzibar789