are you allowed to?

Don't go making assumptions on who a WK may be

Don't go making assumptions on who a WK may be Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

i agree

Don't go making assumptions on who a WK may be Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

DAMMIT, EA, IT WAS YOU!!!

Time to hand in your man-card. Say it ain't so???? j/k

To answer the original question I'm sure you can say anything you want to a mod via pm.
About the only thing you can get banned for via pm is to harrass/stalk someone.
But your best bet is to just ignore said mod.
So what you got ink?
99.999999% of women here got 'em.
You did kind of shoot yourself in the foot revealing someone had revealed "something" however vague the ROS is to you.
Just let it slide off your back and soldier on darlin'.

It looks like Ruby's rough day just got worse.

See you in a couple of weeks.


All kidding aside, note to Ruby. While you're on vacation, here's something to ponder. One bad review doesn't really send off alarms to most of us guys, but a series of bad reviews will. Even though you probably think you were wronged and wanted to take up for yourself, sometimes you need to let things slide. You need to pick your own battles and where they're fought.

i also forgot that some women also live on eccie too. entertainment? sure, whatever you want to call it. i dont give a flying fuck if people know where my tatts are. as long as they arent in my pictures!!! Originally Posted by rubyred

Ruby my dear...... I think things have gotten a bit too far out of hand and a push away from the keyboard is needed...... it has nothing to do with any personal beef you may have with anyone on staff...... it has to do with a clear violation of board rules...... while Ike's methods to find your "informant" is different than mine...... "he" needs to know that there are reasons why we do not want information leaked to the providers in such a manner..... it compromises the honesty and integrity of a reviewer and his reviews should he fear backlash from a provider should he be completely honest in his review..... you had a review that stated you had tattos he was unaware of and that your pictures were touched up just a bit, and you start a thread about it, and urge the review be taken down because it was "false".... what happens when an actual "BadL review needs to be written about another provider? Does a hobbyist then have to worry about an even greater more vicious response? There are reasons policies are in place.......

As far as your initial question.... there are always ways to politely ask someone to kindly step away from a situation and allow someone else to field the issue..... now if you're asking "what can you get away with?" Then I think the smart answer is to change the question....... either that.... or you could do as others do...... trial and error......

And that guy posting above me is a wise man....... the last 2 sentences there are nuggets of wisdom.......

Hope you have a wonderful weekend gorgeous...

JaD

When she gets back, she can freely express herself in the Spider Hole........it should be entertaining.

Amen sir...

P.S.-I'm especially impressed that she finally realized she was going to get banned so she got that last ad up just under the wire before her vacation.

Noticed that too.

I like girls who tell off MODS they're hot.

Something about redheads having a fiery tongue - go ahead Ruby, show em the fire in you.

On the flip side, Hope you have a nice break and look forward to your entertainment when you get back.

WOW.....I'm definitely going to have to see Ruby....no question about it. She is definitely worthy of a diversion from my Asians.

And whoever is sending me these hateful texts claiming to be Ruby can stop right now, thanks. Ruby is a sweet girl. She can get angry sometimes, but she realizes it's all small stuff and is strong enough to let it roll off her back. The real Ruby realizes that sending hateful texts to clients out of the blue because of board issues would be bad for business, and she hates drama, so she would never do that. So again, please stop, I'm not angry at Ruby and she's not mad at me, it's not going to work...

Dammit..........foiled again.

So THAT was the problem! Someone else was sending them to him too..... damnit DH!

JaD