Are providers okay with being called degrading names by clients

RGB93's Avatar
  • RGB93
  • 01-02-2014, 03:21 PM
No way I could do it for any reason.
I had one session like that. The provider started it by saying what a dirty girl she was. So I started, yeah? You like that? You filthy little whore! Suck it you dirty slut! It was pretty hot. But now that I did it once its no big deal.
pyramider's Avatar
Always treat the taint with respect even if you are saying degrading things.
I said "suck it like your momma taught you"!! One time, it went over like a turd in a punch bowl!!! I like the dirty talk.
^ I would have stopped and laughed... Like my momma taught me? TFF
Brooke Wilde's Avatar
^^^ Me too ^^^ That is funny as hell.
Alyssa XOXO's Avatar
Respect is a powerful thing...
It can be given or taken away... Originally Posted by Ur_1_only
Providers are people. Treat them as you would anyone else - assume that treating them in a potentially degrading manner isn't OK unless you have their explicit permission.

When in doubt, err on the side of NOT being an asshole. Originally Posted by blowpop
Please ask me first, its never wise to assume anything.
LexusLover's Avatar
Please ask me first, its never wise to assume anything. Originally Posted by Kammye
If a guy's lips and tongue are busy, they shouldn't be "talking" anyway. Well, ladies, too!

That's what my momma taught me.

silverstate53's Avatar
Not my thing either but Reese does call me SLUT
.....hence the fantasies I fulfill are for them NOT ME! I am okay with the dirty little cum slut and nasty girl (you may even find that in one of my recent ads!) .....just like Im okay and I accept my other spectrum of clients calling me Princess or Beautiful or Daddys Little girl. I am diverse and its all fantasy to me! ...... but I agree that every provider is different :-) Originally Posted by brittneynashville
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Not my thing either but Reese does call me SLUT Originally Posted by silverstate53
Ha...you too
Not my thing either but Reese does call me SLUT Originally Posted by silverstate53

You earned that name honestly…

Ha...you too Originally Posted by DickEmDown
I think the slut above you has reached the realm of slutdome…that no one else can reach. Although, you my dear, are VERY VERY close.
SpiceItUp's Avatar
As with everything else in life, YMMV and much depends on your approach. Approach it as you would with any fantasy that isn't part of a "typical" session.

If it's part of your fantasy just letting loose verbally with words that are not acceptable in civilian/vanilla sex life then you will find many providers very accommodating. After all, they are in the business of "doing the things the SO won't" and many of them love that aspect of their job.

Just let the girl know what your fantasy entails first is all. If you just bust out with derogatory and "offensive" remarks she may mistake you for a different type of client that enjoys berating women and may then react less than positively. If you approach it correctly though you'll find her to be receptive and even enthusiastic which will heighten the experience for you.

As a cultured modern male part of the reason I hobby to begin with is because it can be quite liberating to throw decorum to the wind. Just give her a heads up first
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