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Yeah I will say, since COVID i have been more seeing traveling more higher end providers vs. the normal local STG girl. I can imagine a lot of people have. Plus ALbany has just gone downhill in that regard anyway.

When I screen I send my linked in/ID vs references anyway so that also holds me to show up lol.
Hey, I was one who wanted to see ya. You were out of area at the time and I refuse to be on Twatter, so I feel like it's a shot in the dark to see ya. You come highly recommended and would love to see ya.
  • NKOTB
  • 03-04-2022, 08:20 AM
Maddox Blue was scheduled to be in Albany this week and I scheduled w her along w a $150 deposit. I texted her to confirm and no response. She seemed legitimate but it seems I was mistaken. And I’m out $150.
The deposit thing, nah!! Hi priced tryst girls, nah!! This town has a lot of high profile stuff going on which makes clients nervous and could be one of the reasons for cancellations. Also much of the work around here is so overwhelming, that it is not uncommon to feel like you are chained to your desk. I have had to cancel because I suddenly get called into work or get jammed up at it, but I have the common decency to let the provider know and just ghost them !!! Do the same knuckleheads!!!!
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Maddox Blue was scheduled to be in Albany this week and I scheduled w her along w a $150 deposit. I texted her to confirm and no response. She seemed legitimate but it seems I was mistaken. And I’m out $150. Originally Posted by NKOTB
Her Tryst says she will be in Albany March 11-12.

I can be bad about responding to messages in a timely manner. Maybe she intends to respond to your message but hasn’t yet.

Maybe there was a miscommunication. Maybe she scammed you. It’s certainly not my place to decide .
Yes, over the last few years COVID has increased cancellations, but that is generally speaking. COVID didn’t all of the sudden increase cancellations in Albany just this month.

We all have bad days, weeks, months. Gotta look at the big picture.

8 years in this industry & 2020 was my best year in terms of $$ Earned. Jan 20th 2022 - Feb 18 2022 was my best month in terms of $$ Earned.

We have to stop blaming COVID. Yes, it will impact both ladies & gents. But at this point, established & experienced providers should see the obstacles that COViD has presented & adapt.

I hope this doesn’t come off as mean. I’m rooting for every other woman in this industry. Community over Competition!

Back to the topic at hand. Yeah I bombed in Albany this month. I bombed to a degree that I have never bombed - in hundreds of tours! I’m not too proud to admit that. But it wasn’t COViDs fault. Originally Posted by bustybabygirl
I have some theories about this.

I think 2020 was your best year for a few reasons:
1). Mongers didn't have to report to work due to COVID shutting everything down.
2). People were putting their mortgages in forbearance and enjoying no rent even if they didn't have an interruption of income, so money was becoming plentiful.
3). Stimulus was flowing.

Right now what you may be feeling is a market correction, and by the way, it's going to get worse. The screws are getting turned on everyone with the cost of fuel and food. Unfortunately, hobbying will have to take a back seat for some and when there is that occasion to burn a little extra cash to support the habit, mongers are going to be very selective and will want to see ladies without much lead time. It's shitty and getting shittier.... you can thank our representatives with a (D) in front of their name for a ton of this.

Overall, I think ladies are going to have to accept that their prices are going to have to come down and keep their attitudes about it in check if they want to keep money flowing. And considering the quality in this area overall, that's going to be a tough pill to swallow for many as they think they are all gods gift to men.
The deposit thing, nah!! Hi priced tryst girls, nah!! This town has a lot of high profile stuff going on which makes clients nervous and could be one of the reasons for cancellations. Also much of the work around here is so overwhelming, that it is not uncommon to feel like you are chained to your desk. I have had to cancel because I suddenly get called into work or get jammed up at it, but I have the common decency to let the provider know and just ghost them !!! Do the same knuckleheads!!!! Originally Posted by Streambed
I have had those same issues before - being jammed up and can't make it. I always notify the provider ahead of time, at least an hour if not more saying I can't make it and would like to reschedule. About 50% of the time, I get a nasty text back saying shit like, "Nope! No way... not rescheduling. Bye" or something like that. Just as you said, at least I'm not ghosting you and I'm trying to reschedule to see ya. For fucks sake, would ya'all prefer we do what a lot of providers do and ghost your ass? I know it goes both ways with the ghosting, but damn.... friggin show some appreciation when someone reaches out to let you know they can't make it.
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Curious - I disagree with about 75% of what you say, as it relates to me.

I’m quite familiar with how other ladies (locally & nationally) have been doing over the last few years. I’m even more familiar with how I’ve done. I keep very good records.

How I do is not on trend with how others do. For a multitude of reasons. I’m not saying that I do better across the bar. Of course not. I’m not better. Just different. We are all individuals and I find that my personal trends are not a reflection of overall industry trends

So this really doesn’t apply to me
  • NKOTB
  • 03-04-2022, 08:38 AM
Her Tryst says she will be in Albany March 11-12.

I can be bad about responding to messages in a timely manner. Maybe she intends to respond to your message but hasn’t yet.

Maybe there was a miscommunication. Maybe she scammed you. It’s certainly not my place to decide . Originally Posted by bustybabygirl
Just to be clear, her Tryst ad last week stated March 2 - 4. I scheduled within that time period. I understand things come up and honestly, I hope she’s ok. But a simple text or email would suffice. She has not responded to my email nor text message. If something came up, I totally understand and would reschedule. It bothers me a bit she has not responded.
Text her from a different number and see if she responds. If she does, then it’s very likely you were scammed.
  • NKOTB
  • 03-04-2022, 08:48 AM
Text her from a different number and see if she responds. If she does, then it’s very likely you were scammed. Originally Posted by Warrenajeffers
I’m not even going to bother. Reached out to her via email and text. I’ll just move on. Just hope she’s ok. I assume she is if she’s posting on Tryst for next week.
Curious - I disagree with about 75% of what you say, as it relates to me.

I’m quite familiar with how other ladies (locally & nationally) have been doing over the last few years. I’m even more familiar with how I’ve done. I keep very good records.

How I do is not on trend with how others do. For a multitude of reasons. I’m not saying that I do better across the bar. Of course not. I’m not better. Just different. We are all individuals and I find that my personal trends are not a reflection of overall industry trends

So this really doesn’t apply to me Originally Posted by bustybabygirl
I mean, you'd know better than I would for sure. That's why I said I had a few "theories". Albeit; they seem to be logical, but who knows....

I stand by the comment though that everyone is feeling the squeeze and I can definitely see hobbying slowing significantly. I hate to say it, but you ladies might have to employ some price corrections. Seems quite a few are in denial of that. J/s
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This really comes down to the max a guy is willing to shell out for a session (which is like a taboo subject) and the other side of it is the expectations.

Just know that there are guys out there banging some of your favorite pornstars. Sure it’s costing $600+ but again it’s what guys are willing to pay for higher quality.
Just to be clear, her Tryst ad last week stated March 2 - 4. I scheduled within that time period. I understand things come up and honestly, I hope she’s ok. But a simple text or email would suffice. She has not responded to my email nor text message. If something came up, I totally understand and would reschedule. It bothers me a bit she has not responded. Originally Posted by NKOTB
Yes I also scheduled for the last time she was supposed to be here but was never asked for a deposit. Also got the silence when the trip was cancelled, which I am assuming is what happened.
I mean, you'd know better than I would for sure. That's why I said I had a few "theories". Albeit; they seem to be logical, but who knows....

I stand by the comment though that everyone is feeling the squeeze and I can definitely see hobbying slowing significantly. I hate to say it, but you ladies might have to employ some price corrections. Seems quite a few are in denial of that. J/s Originally Posted by CuriousOne111
I dont think pricing is really that big an issue? I mean, for a traveling higher end provider I don't think 400 or 500 is that big an ask. Sure, some claim to get 1500/hr which we all know isn't coming to Albany. But I am more than willing to pay the 500 and, lemme tell ya, fantastic experiences so far. Just do your research.

I think anything above that for Albany they will get few appointments. I have definitely seen the ones wanting 800+ cancelling their trips for lack of interest. The median income here is 33k and just barely meeting the average of 45k nationwide by different stats. I am lucky to not be making that. So, who knows. But I do not believe there will be a price correction for honest to god higher end girls. It's the STG trash that needs price correction.