Outcalls at home?

Chick shows up with boyfriend or appears strung out/on a bender you slam the fucking door in her face after yelling "not today, bitch"! Seriously, there's ample risk in both incall and outcall situations, for different reasons. I think chicks are actually in a better position to rob you in an incall situation, as you're in their house, so to speak, with them having more control over the situation. Just last week I did an incall with a chick I had seen a few times previously. I went into the bathroom to relieve myself before our date when I heard something moving behind the shower curtain. I threw the curtain back and there was this black guy standing there. He apologized and explained he was just a visiting "friend", but I got the hell out of there asap. My point is you don't know who's lurking in the room with you during an incall, or just as bad, who's ready to enter the room suddenly without notice, whether it be a pimp, boyfriend, or even uncle Leo Originally Posted by Warrenajeffers

And can only control what you, wow that is a sad story, disrespectful on her part, extremely disrespectful

1st thing when having outcall is to make sure you know who you are talking to Agencies, Assistants, Managed, Indie. Help limit the amount people in your business.

This link will help you with who you are talking to http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...712&highlight=

Me and my SO prefer outcalls to the house, the ultimate in comfort. Since it's both of us the provider is never alone. Even if she has to take a piss we are with her even watching her wipe her ass. Risk taker? What about the risks you guys take going to the worst neighborhoods in town (LE)/low income housing areas to get some pussy? How are you going to explain being there to your SO when the provider acts a fool and something bad goes down? Remember a provider can act a fool anywhere, anytime. A pimp could show up anywhere, anytime (read a few reviews). I have more control of the situation at my house. When the session is at my house I have the right to take any steps necessary to control the situation from asking her to leave etc…

Outcall to the house avoids a few issues like clean sheets, towels, double booking, pimp/friend hiding in the bathroom or closet, cleanliness, video.

What not to do when a provider comes over to the house!!
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1276766

What about the risks you guys take going to the worst neighborhoods in town (LE)/low income housing areas to get some pussy?
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1271991

Everything worked out in the end for Joel Goodson (Tom Cruise) in Risky Business.

Some very good points on both sides. Thanks for all the input. It really seems like it's a risk if you do either.

What if you do outcalls at your home and you live in a low income housing that's not in the greatest neighborhoods?
If a provider went a bender or what ever you wanna call it and is knocking on my door, (I don't know about anyone else)but, I have guns, a dog and I have a phone to call the police. So I guess I wouldn't worry about that scenario. Rather than a couple of people said I worry about guys hiding in the room and getting robbed there.

This is something I've been struggling about so I really do appreciate everyone's input on this thread.

I prefer Outcall to a private residence, as opposed to a hotel.
I know there are some gentleman who are apprehensive about hosting. If you are seeing a reputable Provider, there should be no issue.

the world would be a better place if only all Ladies were like Ms. Bolan........sadly they are not

Army, stop thinking with the little head and let the one on your shoulders take over for a bit.......that would be step one at this point.

My first 4 or 5 hobby "sessions" were all outcalls to my apartment. Just random BP girls I'd never met before coming over to my place. Fucking stupid on my part. Haven't done an outcall in a few years and thankfully nothing bad ever went down at my own place.

the world would be a better place if only all Ladies were like Ms. Bolan........sadly they are not

Army, stop thinking with the little head and let the one on your shoulders take over for a bit.......that would be step one at this point.
Originally Posted by 57fubar

I believe I'm thinking too much with my head on my shoulders. Thinking about it too much trying to play it safe. Or as safe as one can be.

My first 4 or 5 hobby "sessions" were all outcalls to my apartment. Just random BP girls I'd never met before coming over to my place. Fucking stupid on my part. Haven't done an outcall in a few years and thankfully nothing bad ever went down at my own place. Originally Posted by Toonman

Don't beat yourself up too much. My SO, who you think would follow my advice on the Do's and Dont's, completely ignored me and tried BP. Let's just say neither occasion went the way he thought it would.

If I was a guy I would only see ladies that have great recent reviews. Backpage can be used for good or evil. Your always rolling the dice when it comes to a fresh face, but we all had to of started somewhere

True Jamie.......however the best advice in the world is of no use if it goes unheeded

You never poo at the same place you eat amigo...

I agree with Autumn. I feel safer going to a private residence. I'm always a bit nervous to meet a new man at a hotel, for fear that it is a setup or law enforcement. Something about being invited over to their place just puts me to ease. But, I have always had great experiences at hotels. Men and women both need to use their intuition and be smart!!! Stay away from dumpy trashy places (i.e. The Lawrence). If the cops are in the parking lot-generally not a great sign LOL

ALWAYS do your research!!!!

Love,
V

I have to chime in on this real quick with my opinion. Good points on all sides here, but I am kinda of skeptical to meet someone for the first time away from my own turf. I feel that it is neutral because I only stay at the best hotels an area has to offer and I am 100% independent. You guys already know a good deal about your flavor choices through reviews and hobby boards. Do your research, but understand that we go off very little information when we screen for you. I wish girls would be brutally honest when we call for a reference and just tell us that, "Yes, that guy is one of the weirdest men that I have ever encountered in my life and has breath like a horse's ass!" Or "Yes, that guy thinks this is a dating site for trophy wives, beware!" Special warnings need to put out here for quite a few. We have to worry about our safety as well, so incall or outcall is your call, just make a call! Support your local providers. There is some very special girls here. Welcome and enjoy my dear. Some offers Military discount Thanks for your service babe.

Oh we also have to worry about clean sheets, animals, friends, wives, cameras and doors with key lock deadbolts and basement apartments. I once went to an outcall where he wanted to show me around the house, as soon as he unlocked a padlock off a door he wanted to show me into, I asked him if he was out of his f****ing mind? I left immediately without a struggle. That moment in time is what jaded me to play in my own park for the first play date most defiantly.

I could not agree with you more kaylee. What the hell is the point of reference check if the ladies are not going to be honest with each other?! Some guys are just weird, but others or safety hazards. It is absolutely unacceptable to give a false reference .

If anyone ever give someone a false reference I think it should definitely be shared somewhere on here. It's sad the world we live in but everyone can certainly not be trusted !!!'

Safety first ladies !!!!! Look out for each other !!!

Again, great point Kaylee Xoxo

For the record, I'm all for the honest reference checks of the men and I imagine most guys who aren't a dbag are as well.

It is the dishonesty and bullshit in the reference and review systems that makes it tough on the rest of us.