Kayla, this a good thread, thank you.
It doesn't matter if a provider see me as a customer or client, I rather be a friend than customer or client... friendship is more important because if your SO is not giving you what you want and need you will escape to the arms of a provider and if the provider is good to you and every session with her is better than your SO... you will see that provider on a regular basis then she can be your other SO and by then you already have some relationship and know each other well as friends.
If a provider see me as a friend then when she is not available or gets a call from another provider for ref she can say "He is a friend of mine... and yes he is cool and fun and treat him well..." with that said our hobby life can reach a higher level of trust, friendship and satisfaction for all. Originally Posted by nbs4143
This question is splitting hairs and IMO is nothing more than an AD. It's telling everyone how you are better than the majority of providers and will take better care of them. It has also become a thread where others can tell you how wonderful, smart, caring you are. Blah, Blah, Blah...This site is about hookers and johns and dressing it up with "titles" is silly.Wow, what great optimism!
This question is splitting hairs and IMO is nothing more than an AD. It's telling everyone how you are better than the majority of providers and will take better care of them. It has also become a thread where others can tell you how wonderful, smart, caring you are. Blah, Blah, Blah...This site is about hookers and johns and dressing it up with "titles" is silly. Originally Posted by Budman
You can tell everything you need to know by his posting style. In 007 thread, when a guy is at the hardest place, he comes in to prick him a bit and runs off. The behavior goes on and on in his posting style. That will give you a very good idea what sort of "client" he may be. Harder to work with, but possibly a diamond in the rough if he's given some care and concern to sand away the edges.Kayla- girl you crack me up....sand away the edges....