Does being asked this offend you guys?? And if so, what's the best way to ask??

I always take the polite "Would like to freshen up?" or something similar as a request to wash up a bit and comply. I figure she wouldn't offer unless she wants me to. If I am not coming fresh from a shower then I am going to jump in and run some soap over my junk. I like to swish some mouthwash too before getting down to business.

My ATF also suggest a quick dip so says can wash my back, she gets hers done as well.

There was a provider that used to wash guys up before activities
as a regular part of her routine, she had a system and it only
took 5 maybe 10 min at the most. She would always get in
the shower also.

She did not take it off their time and would state that fact,
so it was kind of like a little bonus as well. Because it was
her thing and for her peace of mind she didn't count it
against their time.

Guys got used to the fact that she did this per reviews and
her stating it in her ADs, and Showcase.

The better known Thai Nuru gals work the bath, where nothing is missed, in with part of the Nuru session. It always moves seamlessly into the Nuru massage then some great fucking although getting getting out of the tub can be challenging and sometimes just funny as hell.

Do not in the slightest feel bad for asking this. Just put it on your ads and say a 3 minute wash up of all the obvious parts is required for everyone on arrival.

After 3 instances of "pre-lubing" and one provider with lube and white froth all over her kitty, I no longer ask for providers to be in lingerie. I ask them to have wet hair and a towel on when I arrive. Originally Posted by citizen44

^ That is just nasty.
I will never again apologize for arriving with wet hair.

I don't find it offensive I think we all should be up to par with our hygiene. Sometimes I read reviews where guys say she a light kisser and some say she DFK and then they wonder why. If you want a good session be clean it might help. Originally Posted by pootie tang79

Lol. U got me!!!

A presession shower,along with the lady,is a nice foreplay opportunity,and very enjoyable,wish more ladies would include this.

I always insist to shower as well, part of my routine. I do miss Lexy from PA though. Shed attack me at the front door, and once in the room dropped to her knees, undid my pants, and started blowing me. After about 5 min warming me up, she'd allow the shower. God I miss her.

but it's for my own peace of mind even if you did shower at home haha...

Originally Posted by seximisslexi

I usually clean up before I get dirty so I won't re-clean just because you ask but you're welcome to check if you do not believe me. I know I will sniff you before!



If we go out to dinner and I've already eaten are you going to make me eat again or can I enjoy a few drinks?

If you're balls can't pass the sniff test....

If you're balls can't pass the sniff test.... Originally Posted by FoxyNC

I just pay a little extra and have you ladies lick them clean...

You should not feel bad for asking clients to freshen up. The gentlemen who commented on this sound like they keep good hygiene habits, but Unfortunately Not all guys do. This is Houston everyday is 80 degrees or hotter, and with the traffic in this city it takes at least 30 minutes to an hour to get anywhere so a quick clean up (at least) should not be offensive to anybody. Washing their hands should definitely be a must especially if they want to do FIV.

I just pay a little extra and have you ladies lick them clean...


TROLL.
Originally Posted by WTF

Um, NO.

I've never seen a Provider with a "Dirty ball licking" fetish posted....


(Stolen from my website lol)

Can we do the "chit chat" part while cleaning up, or does that happen next?

Best to ask them is "Hey lets take a shower together" aka both get clean and its a prelude to the fun