7:52 PM, 21 August...on the way to Debbie Does Dallas

SLeep with one eye open is my advice... The screaming an yelling doesn't bother me... the quiet responses are the ones that scare the hell outta me... HEEEEERRRRREEEEE's JOOOHHNNNYYYYY!

Ohhh goodness. Good luck sweetie and hopefully all has calmed down. Kind of reminds me when my mom found out I was providing....but thats a whole different thread

I think John Bobbit had a similar story...But in the end he's turned out fine...albeit a little snippyness from the wife

wow..i dont even know what to say about this..except..You may wanna change
all the providers names in your phone to guys names..im sure she is gonna start to really look at your contact list as well as your texts...also I would suggest you put a lock on your computer and get rid of ecc on your fav's file..honestly..if i were a wife and a man came clean to me.....
....Id be pretty damn pist off and take things into my own hands..but..I'm not a wife..and I'm single all the way around..however..I don't need any crazy wives calling me ...or playing "I'm a a new hobbyest can we set up an appointment"
Best of luck to you..cuz you are really gonna need it!!!nita..

Best of luck to you..cuz you are really gonna need it!!!nita.. Originally Posted by anita germane

She's not going to do any of that and it's already all protected in any case. She's vastly more mature and rational than I am. Appreciate the luck though because you can never have too much of that.

One week update. We finally had the next conversation. She thought I wanted to leave her. I assured her I did not but if she wanted to throw me out, I'd understand. No. We're good.

I asked her if she wanted to say anything else and she said that I should be doing the talking. I asked if she had questions and she said she did but they weren't the ones I probably expected.

A week filled with hugs, smiles, touches, coffee made for me in the morning, lots of extra little caring items...

Don't know if she wants me to quit and I haven't attempted marital coitus.

Wow, you're a lucky man NB. Let's see, a week after having my "conversation" and I'd be facing something like this:

Her attorney: Your client realizes he's losing half of everything.
My attorney: Yes.
Her attorney: Plus alimony and child support.
My attorney: Yes.
Her attorney: Is your client hiding any assets?
My attorney: No.
Her attorney: You're not even trying for child custody, right?
My attorney: No.
Her attorney: You realize your client was a dimwit for disclosing his activities, right?
My attorney: Yes.

Don't know if she wants me to quit and I haven't attempted marital coitus. Originally Posted by NormalBob

And even IF my scenario was a little off from above, this wouldn't be possible either as I'd be sporting the latest John Bobbitt! Ouchie!

Her attorney: You realize your client was a dimwit for disclosing his activities, right?
My attorney: Yes. Originally Posted by Chaz108

I would guess he hasn't exactly disclosed everything.

Maybe the wife has been up to something too? Does she screeen her clients well? Sorry NB, I couldn't resist.

Funny, I was thinking about this, and starting it as a thread elsewhere (D&T), "what have you done when you got caught?" Sort of a primer, in case that should happen to any of us.

I would guess he hasn't exactly disclosed everything. Originally Posted by Doove

My thoughts exactly....honesty isn't telling bits and pieces of the truth ....it is telling the whole truth...
If you have one of those conversations where you claim to be putting it all out there on the table and yet you only disclose the tip of the iceberg ..you're just telling another lie and it hardly deserves a pat on the back or a high five...
this thread alone enforces my NEVER GET MARRIED plan!!!!!!

but hey, when writing reviews on pay for play encounters looses its thrill you can always move on to writing them about your wife....

If you have one of those conversations where you claim to be putting it all out there on the table and yet you only disclose the tip of the iceberg ..you're just telling another lie and it hardly deserves a pat on the back or a high five... Originally Posted by viviantonight

Based on our personality clashes in the past, I can appreciate where you're coming from.

I'm open to answering whatever questions she has for me as long as they don't violate anyone's privacy.

We have a ten day "Empty Nester Honeymoon" coming up in September where it's just the two of us. We'll find a way to get to everything we need to discuss on our own time line. Different marriages have different biorhythms.

There are providers who are married and others that have significant others. I'm not sure why the working assumption is that a guy can't be in a relationship and still hobby.

Is that based on the assumption that men and women react differently to their partners having sex with others or a difference based on the direction the money flows?

This is supposed to be a hobby community. Since a large percentage of hobbyists are married, I thought I'd relate my experience to those that have wondered to themselves about the nature of their relationship to their wife and to the hobby.

but hey, when writing reviews on pay for play encounters looses its thrill you can always move on to writing them about your wife.... Originally Posted by viviantonight

Isn’t that what this thread is already?

My thoughts exactly....honesty isn't telling bits and pieces of the truth ....it is telling the whole truth...
If you have one of those conversations where you claim to be putting it all out there on the table and yet you only disclose the tip of the iceberg ..you're just telling another lie and it hardly deserves a pat on the back or a high five...
this thread alone enforces my NEVER GET MARRIED plan!!!!!!

but hey, when writing reviews on pay for play encounters looses its thrill you can always move on to writing them about your wife.... Originally Posted by viviantonight

I probably should have left this one alone but something bothered me about the ostracizing tone in language about truth telling of the post...let me explain...bringing up a point of telling the whole truth and then bringing up a never getting married plan? What made it confusing to me was in the past you posted an ad...the following link:

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=71941

In the language of the post you mention a hubby...That to me denotes being married? But then there is a statement of never getting married? So by this odd twist of thoughts of truth I get confused as to the telling the "whole truth" line of thinking when by reading posts one is persuaded to believe two different things by someones own words. So are white lies in advertising truth or just partial truth? Are partial lies between a husband and wife just non-deserving pats on the back vs say partial lies in advertising?

Don't get me wrong I'm not trying to back anyone in a corner by my line of reasoning with these comments rather its hard to take things with a grain of salt as to say when I my self have seen conflicting statements by someone about someones truth telling habits is all. I guess its like saying people in glass houses should not throw stones.

Isn’t that what this thread is already? Originally Posted by jokacz

That's a fair criticism.

It's been a weird year.

Maybe the wife has been up to something too? Originally Posted by SR Only

Well, I'm glad I'm not the only one thinking that.