Luckily, with kissing it's easy to follow my partner's cues and mimic his preference and go from there. With blowies, it's a little more difficult since I don't have a blow stick of my own...so I just flip through a variety of styles and see which gets the best response. Once again, it helps you out tremendously to speak up -- a professional girl won't take it personally. It's almost like hiring out a personal chef and being shy about mentioning your tolerance for spice or love of aged cheeses. Even if she's perfectly able to make the best dish you've ever tasted, it's unlikely that she will simply by making a professional guess.
Originally Posted by JennsLolli
When I get a haircut, I like to sit in the chair and not say anything; if they ask what style, I usually say "shorter." Likewise, I think it's fun to go to the bar and order "a drink" or "a beer" and let the bartender choose for me.
Blowies are the same, I want the giver to show me what they like to do; that way I learn something new and get to try different techniques. It adds adventure!
Of course, this leaves room for some penises to be disappointed that it didn't happen the way they like, and it has nothing to do with the quality of the blowie, but of the communication. So, what we need is a lexicon of blowjob elements (pressure, negative pressure, suction, hands, tongue, wetness, teeth, lips, etc) and a way to talk about them (too much, too little, just right, perfect timing, a little premature, too hard, etc).
I am happy to write this primer and then evaluate girls based on their performance in real time; JennsLolli, you can be first. Since you clearly have an understanding of BJ Science, also known as Blowieology, you will greatly add to the research project's methods and variable testing.
What I need now are test subjects; ladies please submit your volunteer applications to my inbox.
