Psychoanalysis without a license is foolish, but I'm in that sort of mood. I can't help thinking that often attitudes such as the one under discussion are really projections of some underlying guilt on the guy's part for being in the hobby. If what I/we are doing is 'wrong,' it's at least better that the women who are involved are 'no good' anyway. Yeesh.
Actually, almost all the women I've been with have been really good. {wink}