I will say that my loathing (and it is a loathing) of woman with a lot tattoo's is actually something I have a hard time putting into words but since you have what seems like an honest curiosity about why i feel that way, I feel compelled to try and explain.
Generally speaking I find tattoos to be gross and disgusting....but only on woman....tatted up guy's??? I couldn't care less!....but I'm not going to bed with guy's...
Interestingly....the more attractive the woman is...the more her having tattoo's will bother me. when I see a really beautiful woman who's all tatted up its just....well...it's almost sicking to me...i actually feel bad for her and I think...she's so beautiful...why would she want to do that to herself....yuck!
There's probably a few things going on with me in this regard....for starters...I just really love woman...i think they are by and large the better half of our species......I find woman to be such beautiful and intriguing creatures and when I'm out...at the mall say...and see a really beautiful girl who's fit and healthy and she looks happy...as a man, it makes me happy to see that....
Also after my wife (who I dearly loved) died way to young, i raised two daughters by myself...watched them grow up...felt there pain when some boy hurt there feelings or things were not going there way...listened to all there thoughts and just loved them both so much....there is no doubt that my two girls have colored my perception, feelings and empathy i have for woman.
In a very real sense I feel that a beautiful woman's body is already a natural work of art, lovely to behold and a bunch of tatts just really fucks that up for me!
That being said...I don't mind a few tattoo's if they are small and unobtrusive but when they are all over a woman's back or front or arms....or especially on her breasts.....I just can't!!!!
As for my tastes in woman.....I've always had a thing for beautiful brown eyed brunettes with olive skin and Latina woman really get me going!
Originally Posted by Lucky 1
I greatly appreciate your honesty, more than you could know, actually. Have you ever had a candid convo with a lady to understand why she would have chosen to get a tattoo? Kinda like I sincerely asked you?
I have reasons for both of mine and they are special to me, and no ya'll that's not something anyone is entitled to know, but a few trusted friends I know understand why I would want something personal just for me. Hobbyists are not entitled to all of me, just my time....'-)
The reason I asked as I did is because I wanted to know why you felt soooo strongly, and I wanted to understand what drove that in you. You seem to have a protective nature of women, but came across as some one who might be....well, I don't even wanna say it now, because I see you are not, but...
I had to think a moment and kinda breathe. Most would just get "upset" or misunderstand your intent, as is evidenced on this board...LOL I really wanted to understand your reasoning. Now that I do, I see you are not really a hater at all, but.....maybe you might not say it quite so....
strongly. Tatted ladies got feelings too and just as me, theirs may have meaning and it felt a little harsh to be judged like that. Strong words are more influential than some of you guys may know. I couldn't make that up if I tried. LOL
Saying it like that won't stop a lady from getting one, btw. But, we know your heart was in it now....:-) So yes, thank you. And hey, I change my mind about what I believe at times. I kinda hope you too might see this issue in another light. Either way, it's all good. And again...thank you for elaborating.