1st messages not to send

I had one lady show me pics from three different guys they had sent her of their cocks. Amazing that they thought that would get a good response. Then again she showed me half a dozen pics of guys' drivers licenses that they had sent without any information blurred out. What dunces to send that information to someone they have never met and may never meet!

As in most things in life, Darwin works. As long as you wonderful ladies don't respond, they will either figure it out or go back to backpage where they belong.

I had one lady show me pics from three different guys they had sent her of their cocks. Amazing that they thought that would get a good response. ... Originally Posted by Woodford

Awww, man, they don't like dick pics??? Gosh, I wish I'd known that. No wonder I never hear anything back!

'Course, I always have to provide that caption where I explain, "I'm a grower, not a shower." Still, I thought any red-blooded woman would be completely charmed by a penile image.

Live and learn ... [sigh!]

I am a nice gentleman for a lady that's a good "sucker". LOL

Agree. There had been no communication. I opened message and it was as quoted.

Uh, really. There was not a response given.
Hey, just say hi. Let us chat as bit.

Manners get you futher than rudeness. I am a sucker for nice gentlemen. Originally Posted by Addison Nash

I am a nice gentleman for a lady that's a good "sucker". LOL Wish you were here.

Asking about any service or a discount in the first communication is uncomfortable. Some make it more uncomfortable than others. While I don't hold writing skills against most, please don't PM or email as if texting. Be clear and concise at the very least, and please provide what is asked for, if anything, upon first contact. Never assume because one lady, or even all the ladies one has previously chosen, do not screen, that every lady falls into the category of taking those kind of risks.

What we offer is more personal than most give thought to, so at least try to act as if you are a considerate human being who understands there is not a robot who will respond, but rather a thinking, and like it or not, feeling human being at the other end. Treat every lady as lady upon first contact and you can't go wrong. If her response is not that of a lady, then go for being a rude or crude individual right back, if that is your thing. There are ladies here, and some females who don't think that highly of themselves, and I'm not judging either way. I'm just advising that you can't screw up first contact if you behave with a modicum if consideration.

I had one lady show me pics from three different guys they had sent her of their cocks. Amazing that they thought that would get a good response. Then again she showed me half a dozen pics of guys' drivers licenses that they had sent without any information blurred out. What dunces to send that information to someone they have never met and may never meet!

As in most things in life, Darwin works. As long as you wonderful ladies don't respond, they will either figure it out or go back to backpage where they belong. Originally Posted by Woodford

they are just trying to assure the provider they aren't LE. either that or they really think showing their cock is going to make the provider get turned on enough to see them?

they are just trying to assure the provider they aren't LE. either that or they really think showing their cock is going to make the provider get turned on enough to see them? Originally Posted by joesmo888

Surely, you're just saying that to be funny. Did you forget to say "LOL"?

If not:

That wouldn't say anything about whether they are LE.

It would be a long stretch of the imagination to think that any provider would be turned on by any pic of anybody's cock. Even if she were turned on, who is to say whether the cock she sees would be the cock she got.

Providers aren't here to find cock. They're here for cock to find them.

You must eat ass Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

It should be obvious. I might eat ass, but not asshole.

they are just trying to assure the provider they aren't LE. Originally Posted by joesmo888

Ha! I always suspected that cops don't have cocks.

"What's your menu?" #PetPeeve

It is certainly off-putting when a guy starts the conversation with mentions of sexual acts and nothing else.

I understand how some guys "don't want to waste time" on providers that won't give them the experience they want. To that end, it's very easy to mention activities you like while you are giving the girl the rest of the information they need. This will also get a better response from providers because you are obviously not wasting her time. I would refrain from mentioning those activities as they relate to her.

Ex. "Hi there. I have availability tomorrow morning and would like to schedule a hour session if we are a good match. I'm 45, Hispanic, and 5'9. I enjoy DATY, FF and facials. My references are ______, _______, and ________. They will know me by this handle and my phone number xxx-xxx-xxxx. Please don't contact that number unless I have given the OK. Thank you."

Threads like this one always leave me scratching my head and how clueless some guys can be. Friends have shared a lot of these kind of things with me--always taking off any identifying info of course. Here are some, paraphrased but the essence is there:

"I want to see you, but if I make you cum do you still charge for the time?" (This seems to be a pretty common one.)

"The last two women don't give references but if they did I know they'd say good things about me. You can trust me."

"How much extra for bare-back?"

"If I pay $XXX I get to do whatever I want for the hour, right?"

I really don't understand how you ladies put up with us.

I just send dic pics of my legendary 1.3" of dangling death dressed in seasonal costumes.

Asking about any service or a discount in the first communication is uncomfortable. Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

I don't get specific when communicating. With reviewed VP's we can already see what's on the menu. Not comfortable asking specifics with unknowns. Not gonna take the chance that LE may be on the other end.

You never get a second chance to make a first impression.

I think that asking about menu should not occur until second or third pm. Asking about prices/discount could be done in first pm, but not without introducing yourself first. It should be saved for the last sentence in the pm.

When asking about a menu item, instead of saying, "do you offer _____ ?" it sounds better to say "I'm looking for someone who does ______ "