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I check about every box on that list and it's largely a very good one. But I agree -
state your rate, be happy I paid it and give me an honest effort at a great time. In return, I'll be a gentleman and likely write you a nice review. If I think your rate makes sense for the experience offered - or for a first time meeting, my perception of the experience offered - I'll pay it and I won't insult you by haggling. I'm not cheap and I'd much rather pay up for a great experience than pay much less for 3 mediocre ones. But in return for not haggling with you, I don't expect you to think less of me when I don't tip. Is there any other profession that makes the hourly rate providers do (and yeah, I appreciate there is more to it than "the time" and that you have expenses) that expects a tip? None I know of. And other professions have expenses too.

I don't expect tips. If I say it's XXX then it's XXX. No hidden messages, no hard feelings. If you tip, you tip. I won't think of you as any different. I base how sweet you are based on how you treat me. If I wanted more cash from you I'd ask for it. I'm a big girl and I have a mouth that speaks words.

That doesn't mean don't tip, if you feel I've gone above and beyond, or if you feel I'm cute then go ahead and tip. But I won't dismiss you as anything less if you don't tip. Some of my best clients don't tip me and I still put them in priority.

I don't even tip a waitress above 10% unless she keeps my water full and she doesn't flirt with my fiancé....but I digress

Being that I am new to the hobby and that there is no excuse for ignorance, I read through the list and realized that I am guilty of at least two of the "don't do's". I overstayed at a providers while I was trying to make her get off, which in turn helps me get off. I did tip, but am afraid I could have offended her by doing the no no's. Without sounding clingy or a stalker. How would I know if I did offend her and how to remedy it?

Being that I am new to the hobby and that there is no excuse for ignorance, I read through the list and realized that I am guilty of at least two of the "don't do's". I overstayed at a providers while I was trying to make her get off, which in turn helps me get off. I did tip, but am afraid I could have offended her by doing the no no's. Without sounding clingy or a stalker. How would I know if I did offend her and how to remedy it? Originally Posted by Stabbingthemat

I would message her and apologize. Tell her you'd like an opportunity to make it up to her on your next date, with whatever you feel is appropriate.

I'm rusty on my high society but I'm pretty certain it's against proper etiquette to tip a business owner. And all I can do is assume every lady here is just that.

If I see you, I have done a lot of research on you. Unless you have 100+ reviews, I have read every single one of them. If you show me a great time, I will write you the best review you have. I will tell other guys to see you through any channels they use to ask me. And I will repeat with you. Helping to drive more business your way and to get more visits from me should be worth way more than 100 bucks.

... If you show me a great time, I will write you the best review you have. I will tell other guys to see you through any channels they use to ask me. And I will repeat with you. Helping to drive more business your way and to get more visits from me should be worth way more than 100 bucks. Originally Posted by RJinLR

A fantastic review & great word of mouth is always appreciated, as well! And it's probably worth exponentially more than any tip.

I feel like I can safely say that I tick off most of these boxes...

I don't expect tips. If I say it's XXX then it's XXX. No hidden messages, no hard feelings. If you tip, you tip. I won't think of you as any different. I base how sweet you are based on how you treat me. If I wanted more cash from you I'd ask for it. I'm a big girl and I have a mouth that speaks words.

That doesn't mean don't tip, if you feel I've gone above and beyond, or if you feel I'm cute then go ahead and tip. But I won't dismiss you as anything less if you don't tip. Some of my best clients don't tip me and I still put them in priority.

I don't even tip a waitress above 10% unless she keeps my water full and she doesn't flirt with my fiancé....but I digress Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

This is a great post!

but be nice to your waitress bc her boss is somehow legally able to pay her like 2 bucks an hour. So in a sense, she's not able to upcharge for Greek.

The more I read the list of do's and dont's they more I laugh. So read # 8 again.

. Try to read her cues. She is a real women with real likes and dislikes. Not everyone wants to be talked dirty to, or smash-cuddled post coitus. Some might love it though!

How about you read my cues? I'm the customer here. I'm a real man with likes and dislikes. I'm the customer here. I'm not ever going to disrespect a provider, however if I want someone to talk dirty to me and I'm a paying customer then guess what... talk dirty.

I'm there to get mine. I'm not concerned about what you like or don't like. Seriously ... as long as your paid the agreed upon amount and your treated with respect and never put in harms way what else do we owe you?

The list was written by an escort, so that speaks for itself. I never said all clients must tip or anything like that all I said is that it's nice and the ones who do are appreciated., but not expected...I guess I've been spoiled in the hobby lol, but I've had no real problems with any client. & I agree on the good review and spreading the word thing. That is a plus that is better than a tip for sure. & some clients do actually care about us getting off, I know my clients love when they get me off so putangkiller I so disagree with you, glad we get to see how you guys feel about things too, I love my clients who get me off!! Keep up the great work!

I care a lot about a lady getting off. It turns me on big time when I can assist with that process and sure as hell makes for a much better session for everybody. And given my age and biological limitations, it won't hurt my feelings one bit if she gets several to my (usually) one.

I care a lot about a lady getting off. It turns me on big time when I can assist with that process and sure as hell makes for a much better session for everybody. And given my age and biological limitations, it won't hurt my feelings one bit if she gets several to my (usually) one. Originally Posted by watchoutthegameisrigged

Love it!! I love my men who are like this. It shows they aren't just about themselves and it makes it fun for both of US! Some just like a dead fuck with a hot chick I guess, lol not me I like a wild fuck who is into it and she starts to cum at the same time I do! (Had that last night with a long time regular, AMAZiNG!

I care a lot about a lady getting off. It turns me on big time when I can assist with that process and sure as hell makes for a much better session for everybody. And given my age and biological limitations, it won't hurt my feelings one bit if she gets several to my (usually) one. Originally Posted by watchoutthegameisrigged

It's a huge confidence booster for me. I feel a lot better about the session if I think she's gotten off, even if she fakes it... if only my ex had understood that better!

It's a huge confidence booster for me. I feel a lot better about the session if I think she's gotten off, even if she fakes it... if only my ex had understood that better! Originally Posted by JdeHog

Yep, the old s.o. with no sexual fire anymore. Or even smoke. Why most of us are here?
Would it help if we paid her?

Yep, the old s.o. with no sexual fire anymore. Or even smoke. Why most of us are here?
Would it help if we paid her? Originally Posted by notequiteatroll

Most likely, no. They never "got it" in the first place. Money doesn't change that.