Are blowjobs cheating?

if my SO (that I dont have so Im basing this off past) received , that's fine. But giving....hell no. Originally Posted by Eva Damita

I don't know, I kinda like gay porn.

Well this gives me a bit of pause... so every time I have find the evidence of secret shopping trip or new shoe binge I can call it cheating?

My feelings on the cheating or not topic require more information;
Is this a blowjob from a secret girlfriend or someone you have or are building a long running relationship with? If yes then yeah I would call it cheating.
If it is just a release then I would call it masturbation level 100; in the end it is virtually the same result just requires an extra person or two. I doubt anyone feels the need to come clean to the SO about the tug-o-war session they had to porn.

---> Of course this is just the logic of a guy on an escort board so real world results may vary Originally Posted by bored@home

Haha! Yes, if she wasnt supposed to shop, you have been cheated on! LOL. She couldn't help wearing the shoes and wore them in front of you? Then she just got caught! LOL.
My SO knows what I do (fortunately, he sees me as the real person that I am and he still loves me after he finds out) and he knows my porn habits and that I play with myself a lot. I send him link of porn that I like. He understands why I had to lie to him about my job when we first met and he forgave me.

Of course it's cheeating.

Ask your SO and see what they say... Originally Posted by tejano2246

Please forward me the OP's SO's number. Her taint will never be the same.

Samantha is in a special situation and we are all thankful for that forgiving guy...... the bottom line is this.... if you put your dick anywhere your SO isn't aware of, it is cheating......bottom line... no pun intended

If I had a bf and he got a bj from someone other than me without my consent, yes I'm gonna say that is cheating.

What about not getting anymore bjs at home? Is that cheating? Who's cheating whom?

Would you care if your SO went and straddled some other guys face? Is that cheating?

I only give daty to my hobby wives.

If I am getting a blowjob, and the lady is not trying to take it all the way down to the balls, then she is cheating me.... in my eyes.

I don't know, I kinda like gay porn. Originally Posted by brownsugarbaby

Are you saying you'd be cool with your man cleaning another man's pipe?

Please forward me the OP's SO's number. Her taint will never be the same. Originally Posted by pyramider

I've got her number. I'm just waiting for the OP to show how he really feels so I can get my pipe cleaned and give her the 'head of her life' without having any fallout.

Are you saying you'd be cool with your man cleaning another man's pipe? Originally Posted by ManSlut

My response to this question belongs in the "Another Realm" section of this forum.

If he received a mouth STD and passed it on to you unknowingly from that one single cheating BJ, would it still be fine and permissable? Or would you only then be upset.

One the same coin if your man ate out a chick only and did DATY would you consider that cheating? Or is it just a male female thing....


I myself only consider it cheating if she swallows. Lol But I don't cheat either. Originally Posted by gimme_that

Herpes can be passed through kissing as well, so is kissing cheating? Hmmm

OP, what if you walked in on your wife giving this HUUUGE dick a killer blow job. I mean, just bobbing up and down, perfect tempo and rhythm, nice amount of saliva (wood all glistening and shit), dude is rock hard and shit, and despite his size, she's taking almost all of it in. She's sucking it like she's competing for the cock sucking championship. I mean TEARING HIM UP, gobbling his wood up!

But, before you could get pissed and raise a shit storm (you paused a few seconds, perhaps in shock), your own dick starts to stiffen up a bit and your eyes are definitely liking what they're seeing. What would you do at this moment?