You're a regular client. You find out FS is an option. But you also find out she doesn't enjoy providing FS. Do you partake?

Great subject you brought up Alyssa ugh. Now maybe you can stfu or get your famous azz back to your Vegas reg

Assume the following set of conditions:
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I just can't see deriving any enjoyment from having sex with her in those circumstances, especially if I continued to see her, no matter how many unborn children I've wasted looking at her pictures between our sessions. Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

You answered your own question. I put it in bold.

Sorry you are struggling with your conscience.

Great subject you brought up Alyssa ugh. Now maybe you can stfu or get your famous azz back to your Vegas reg Originally Posted by Tsmokies

Just listen to Alyssa. I think she is the current post queen to everything. Originally Posted by Tsmokies

Wow not nice at all. What's up with you lately?

Idk Tara. I guess my beater didn't beat me good enough. She used to be a wild one til she left town. Butt now she is just another sweet hottie ;-( since she came back from ok

You answered your own question. I put it in bold.

Sorry you are struggling with your conscience. Originally Posted by EmilyEzzell

Sounds like you're a real standup guy for having this debate in the first place. Long term I think you'd be better off enjoying things as is and IF at some point feelings change maybe you can cross the line for FS. But you knowing it's not really her choice except due to financial woes, I'd suspect you'd lose something in the relationship you have established. Seems like if it's not 'friendship', whatever it is very close and worth keeping.

I agree with Sir Lancerhernot its not about the L3 if this is a lady you see often you should help I have one regular that asks for help on occasion and I do what I can. yes I care for her and want to make her life better because she makes mine better money is only paper I can always make more but the gift makes me feel good cause it makes her happy call me an old sap but I love my providers so I would just give the extra to the gal and not expect anything in return but her company.

Sir i think I would pass on the L3. If in fact she doesn't enjoy it and feels she is being forced by her economic situation into it she may resent that you took advantage of her. Even though she is doing it with others for the money. Just see her at the level you are currently enjoying a little more often.
Maybe a little talk about the situation after a pleasant standard meeting. You may be wrong
about her not enjoying it. Without her convincing me she would enjoy then I would pass.

so I never said, "Hey, can we fuck"? Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

Well fucking DUH...can't close 'em if you don't ask 'em!

Back to the question...why would you want to fuck anybody who doesn't like it, especially a hardship fuck? I mean, how fucking sad is that? That's like an expensive pity fuck and we GET those, we try not to GIVE them.

Yeah, but what if, as I posited, you knew in advance? Would you go ahead, either because you thought or hoped she might actually enjoy it with you, or because it's something you've been thinking about doing that you finally have the chance to? Or would you just sign up for the L1 session then? Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

I would go for it once to see how it is, and after that experience, then the determination would be yes or no of wanting to do it again at a later date. If as you say, she is really not into it or does not like having sex with her clients, and she cannot provide at least the IOP, then it will be the one time and done for me. She is still a great L1 provider and I would continue to see her for that in the future, but when the unexpected expense comes up again and she offers FS for an extra donation again, my answer would be thanks, but no thanks.

The thing is, usually when you go to a regular provider for L1 only, you tend to and should bring the exact amount of money for that session. So, when she offers, you have to wait for the next time you see her, unless you want to pre-empt your session, get dressed and go to the ATM machine right then and come back. Myself, I would rather wait then run back to the ATM, unless, before undressing occurs, the discussion comes up and depending upon how far away the nearest ATM is, it would be then or the next session that the offer would be taken advantaged of.

Assume the following set of conditions:

• You've become a regular client of a lady who provides a nice L1 experience.
• You enjoy spending time with her, and, apparently, she does with you.
• You've never received any indication whatsoever that higher levels of service are available.
• But then you find out that they are.
• And then you find out that, while she'll do L3 because she really needs the money (you know something about her economic circumstances), it's not something she enjoys doing.

You now know that if you bring the issue up, you, too, can partake in the L3 experience.


Do you?


On the one hand, she's apparently going to be doing it with someone, probably lots of someones. Shouldn't you have that opportunity as well? And wouldn't it be marginally better for her to do it with a someone who enjoys spending time with her and might treat her a little better, as opposed to someone who's just there to nut?


On the other, would you feel comfortable afterwards? Would the knowledge that you had just paid someone whose company you enjoy to do something with you that she'd rather not have done, a fact you knew going in, affect your satisfaction with the encounter? Would it affect your decision to see her again, for any level of service?


Or would you tell her, "Let's just stick with what we've been doing," thereby depriving her of another badly needed $100 and you the fulfillment of something you'd been dreaming of?


Me, unless I could somehow believe that I had a magic cock that she would really enjoy having inside her, as opposed to all the other guys' magic cocks, I really think I'd probably tell her to stick with the L1 session. I just can't see deriving any enjoyment from having sex with her in those circumstances, especially if I continued to see her, no matter how many unborn children I've wasted looking at her pictures between our sessions.



In an attempt to avoid hijacking or sidetracking, let's ignore the obvious, that she shouldn't be in the business of offering FS to start with. Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

OMG how about a review and a complaint to Management.