SO - does she know?

When my SO (now X SO) found out I was in the hobby - he got super pissed, but I could tell was a little turned on about it.
Originally Posted by Torre Tames

Okay, this is the only part that confused me. I don't think I could be in a relationship outside of the hobby and not tell him I was a Hooker. I mean, the danger of std's and assaults are increased with this being a "job" to you versus a "hobby" to the guys.

As for him not telling the wife/gf/bf, I do believe it saves more marriages then it destroys. For example, no hookers, then one must have a gf/sb/mistress, and they cost, become clingy and demand some form of a relationship with you. While hookers, want one thing lol. And so do you! Equal trade-off.

Smooches

As someone who was outed, the SO got wind of my activities. She was very hurt but was very upset about the amount of money I was spending.

So I can say she would freak out Originally Posted by TheDallasClient

She would freak out mostly at the cash spent. I would have to run fast an far she's a pretty good shot and can swing a mean frying pan up close.

Or maybe, the only men getting your attention were those with cash ... could easily be two dummies in play. Originally Posted by pyramider

Funny you would say that pyramider.
My X had PLENTY of cash ... PLENTY.
But ... if I went out and bought two pair of shoes and it showed up on the credit card, well .... I would be hounded for weeks about it.
He was in total control (or so he thought).

Not only that, but providing sex when he wanted it, unless and again, would find myself in the dog house.
THAT ... was not a good arrangement. It sucked and not in the good ways.

I heard a few years back, a survey was done regarding sex and lasting relationships.
They asked women "if your husband laid $250 (or more) on the table when he got home and said HEY HONEY let's have sex tonight", the response was an overwhelming YES!
So, no doubt we would have a far less divorce rate.
I find this scenario very insightful.

So why do you say in your post there are two dummies?
I see you've posted several reviews and have been a part of this board for a while.
Maybe I took that comment with the wrong meaning ... but if you are right ... aren't we all dummies?

T

I am a total noob so that that for what it is, my SO is more like a fantastic roommate. Best friend really, but the dead bedroom almost totally did us in. Once after a huge fight, she suggested I go find someone for that. and I did, I had a nice jump off for a long time, but she moved away. So, I started to dabble. Better than a NSA, since most women, eventually want more. So she knows, but doesn't want details

Funny you would say that pyramider.
My X had PLENTY of cash ... PLENTY.
But ... if I went out and bought two pair of shoes and it showed up on the credit card, well .... I would be hounded for weeks about it.
He was in total control (or so he thought).

Not only that, but providing sex when he wanted it, unless and again, would find myself in the dog house.
THAT ... was not a good arrangement. It sucked and not in the good ways.

I heard a few years back, a survey was done regarding sex and lasting relationships.
They asked women "if your husband laid $250 (or more) on the table when he got home and said HEY HONEY let's have sex tonight", the response was an overwhelming YES!
So, no doubt we would have a far less divorce rate.
I find this scenario very insightful.

So why do you say in your post there are two dummies?
I see you've posted several reviews and have been a part of this board for a while.
Maybe I took that comment with the wrong meaning ... but if you are right ... aren't we all dummies?

T Originally Posted by Torre Tames

Yes

Maybe your "ex so" worried about sloppy 2nd's or other issues that may have/could arise or just decided to move on rather than deal w/ it. either way it shou ld be his choice for you to respect.....my take

+ 100 % -- The older I get the more I believe this statement , As for him not telling the wife/gf/bf, I do believe it saves more marriages then it destroys. For example, no hookers, then one must have a gf/sb/mistress, and they cost, become clingy and demand some form of a relationship with you. While hookers, want one thing lol. And so do you! Equal trade-off.

While hookers, want one thing lol. And so do you! Equal trade-off. Originally Posted by rexdutchman

I want TWO things:
* An intimate and rewarding time
* AND C-A-S-H

So... I just love it when the guys on this board call us Hookers.
YES ... I get it!

To bad the word "JOHN" doesn't seem to carry the same image.

Shall I go to the mountaintop and SHOUT OUT ....
Hello EVERYBODY!
I - AM - A - HOOKER!

Wouldn't sound the same for the guy to shout ...
Hey everybody!
I AM - - - a JOHN !!

Whatever.

On the subject of the thread and reading some of the replies,
I have an additional question for those "Johns".

What is it that you are seeking in the hobby?
Is it the STRANGE
or is it the lack of sex in your life?
Maybe both, huh?

If it is just the sex , then you might try paying your wife (instead of a hooker) for it, like I said in an earlier post.
You might get a hell-of-a-lot more poontang.

I know, I could be losing business here if some of my clients took this advice and it worked out perfectly for them.
Oh well, at least I'm creating good karma

Lastly, we might be hookers, but why does that make you better than us if you are a sneaky ass CHEATERS, Mr. John.

John's calling us hookers ... just seems super hypocritical.

I want TWO things:
* An intimate and rewarding time
* AND C-A-S-H

So... I just love it when the guys on this board call us Hookers.
YES ... I get it!

To bad the word "JOHN" doesn't seem to carry the same image.

Shall I go to the mountaintop and SHOUT OUT ....
Hello EVERYBODY!
I - AM - A - HOOKER!

Wouldn't sound the same for the guy to shout ...
Hey everybody!
I AM - - - a JOHN !!

Whatever.

On the subject of the thread and reading some of the replies,
I have an additional question for those "Johns".

What is it that you are seeking in the hobby?
Is it the STRANGE
or is it the lack of sex in your life?
Maybe both, huh?

If it is just the sex , then you might try paying your wife (instead of a hooker) for it, like I said in an earlier post.
You might get a hell-of-a-lot more poontang.

I know, I could be losing business here if some of my clients took this advice and it worked out perfectly for them.
Oh well, at least I'm creating good karma

Lastly, we might be hookers, but why does that make you better than us if you are a sneaky ass CHEATERS, Mr. John.

John's calling us hookers ... just seems super hypocritical. Originally Posted by Torre Tames

Baby, he was quoting me. I called myself a hooker. I'm not ashamed of what I do. And I love to call myself a hooker lol

Got it

To each his own !

Many Hugs,
Torre

Wow in the end we are guys and girls getting what we need ...............

Baby, he was quoting me. I called myself a hooker. I'm not ashamed of what I do. And I love to call myself a hooker lol Originally Posted by ForeignPlaytoy

You're a hooker?? No shame, very common. You might want to try focusing on turning your wrists on the follow thru of your swing.

I really dont have an excuse for being in this hobby. Pussy is good all by itself. You dont need an excuse to fuck it and suck it.
But if my wife drained me twice a week, I think I would hobby less. We have had sex only 3 times this year. On average we go 2 weeks without sex.
But it is my belief that this hobby is saving my marriage. If I couldnt get you ladies to supplement my sex drive, I might consider knocking off her girlfriends. That would lead to divorce.
There is some primo pussy on this site and some expert dick sucking going on. Because of that, I dont have to risk hooking up with women my wife knows or a RW mistress who might pressure me to get a divorce because she's pregnant.

I think most women on eccie want more than money and I try to give them some love and affection. I respect them and their time. I hope they enjoy our time together as much as I do.